Crazy little thing called love

Former Member

Most you know by know that I seem to have found myself a gf. Which is great. And I'm supposed to be in love with her - aren't I?

Before this, whenever I've liked a girl I've had that feeling inside of me that one can only attribute to love - at least, I imagine it's love. But know that I seem to have found someone who love's me back, why hasn't that feeling popped up? Anyone else had that expereince?

Does this mean that I don't really love her? Or am I being completely naive here?

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Viti kuin muuri.

Former Member

Originally posted by Turtle:
Most you know by know that I seem to have found myself a gf. Which is great. And I'm supposed to be in love with her - aren't I?

Before this, whenever I've liked a girl I've had that feeling inside of me that one can only attribute to love - at least, I imagine it's love. But know that I seem to have found someone who love's me back, why hasn't that feeling popped up? Anyone else had that expereince?

Does this mean that I don't really love her? Or am I being completely naive here?

There are all sorts of emotions which can be interpreted as the same thing. Fear, exitement and the first throws of love that you described all give you that butterfly feeling.

IMHO knowing that you are loved is a wonderful warm feeling which can be either with or without the excitement.

I didn't realise what it was like to be truely loved until I met Don (apart from family of course) and in my experience it is much more important, for the relationship, if you are both comfortable in the knowledge that you love each other.

I'm really happy for you Turtle.

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Thanx j9...you're help and guidance are as always wonderful.

I know I love her...i was just worried that maybe I didn't, if you can follow, cos I didn't get that feeling. Ah well...

Thanx again. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Viti kuin muuri.

Former Member

All the guys that fall in love with me, i never feel the same about.

Ive not made my mind up about this one yet cos one minute i think hes great then i dont.

Hes coming round tonight though and im gonna go and sit in his car for a bit, that means going out of the door!!!!

I know what you mean when you say that turtle because for some reason when i have someone coming to me i never feel the same about em as i would if i woulda feel for them first.