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Mate trouble

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Okay, I take the 'relationship' board to mean any kinda relationship, so I'm gonna explain about this arguement me and my best mate have had.

We've been best mates for years, and I love her to bits, but she often goes in moods with me, and i dunno wot imsupposed to do. I always end up crawling after her beggin for her forgiveness - evenif i haven't done anything wrong. This time, she is not talking to me because I am spending time with another friend. It is not like I amleaving her out as she is often with other people beside me. She is expecting me to run after her, but I really can't be bothered. In two weeks I am leaving school for study leave, after that we are bothgoing to different collages. I know people will say well your gonna break up sooner or later, but I don't wanna part on bad terms, but I don't wanna let myself down again....any advice??

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just tell her how it is for you, say you love her to bits but dont understand why she is getting upset over you spending time with another friend. If she was a true friend she would understand. My ex best friend got jealous of me spending time with another and eventually she said I wasnt worth having as a friend, my best friend now is the best friend ever!!You will probably meet someone at college who is more suited to your personality.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey, thank you! Thats great! That way I don't feel I'm letting myself down, and yet it may work it all out!

    Good one! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Clare, im about to loose all my m8s. All of them except 1 are staying at our school. This one is off to Atlantic College. And im off to a college in England.

    Talk to your friend (which one is it??), and tell her how you feel.
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