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The world is full of Married Men

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey, anyone out there have the same problem as me? Why is it that all the guys out there that seem to take an interest in me are Married? Have just had my fingers severely burnt by a married man who promised faithfully to leave his wife for me (not at my request!) told her he was leaving her - and then didn't go through with it!!! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> It doesn't make sense to me that he has told her all about our affair but then has decided to stay. Surely his marriage is doomed now anyway?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by chipmeister:
    <STRONG>Surely his marriage is doomed now anyway?</STRONG>

    Possibly. Or they may be able to work it out. That's between them. Would you really have wanted him to choose you knowing that he'd have had no chance with his wife? It sounds like you're better off without him <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *Thinks her signature is very unappropriate here!* <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> It's not true!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, that makes sense. Think he was actually expecting her to cop out on him, would have made things alot easier for him. He's at a point where he cannot make a decision. Says he still wants to see me - but don't worry I am not going down that path now he's brought "us" to this point. It's ended up with me being the strong one and walking away. Doesn't stop me from feeling completely gutted though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by chipmeister:
    <STRONG>Have just had my fingers severely burnt by a married man who promised faithfully to leave his wife for me (not at my request!) told her he was leaving her - and then didn't go through with it</STRONG>

    "Promised faithfully"? Isn't that a bit of an oxymoron in this situation? This is something I've never understood about women having affairs with married men--how can you trust him? Surely if he cheated on his wife, he'll cheat on you?

    I think you're better off without him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It never works with married people - If they leave their partner for you then you are the bitch/bastard who wrecked the marriage, If they don't leave then you are the bitch/bastard who tried to wreck the marriage
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you shouldnt touch married men with a bargepole - unless theyre married to you, if a man would have an affair then hes not trustworthy full stop, and i cant understand why a woman would accept being someones bit on the side. if you go out with a married man, then you completely deserve any shit you get from it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rainbow bright:
    <STRONG>you shouldnt touch married men with a bargepole - unless theyre married to you
    </STRONG>

    And not always then <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Chica II:
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    And not always then <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I had an affair with a married man and he ended up raping me. I think they promise u the world but u can never trust them like u can never trust any men.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jellygirl16:
    <STRONG>I think they promise u the world but u can never trust them like u can never trust any men.</STRONG>

    I used to think like that. Still do, kind of. But I know I'll never end up happy if I don't trust some <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> It stays at the back of your mind, though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And Turtle: fuck off <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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