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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
how do you know when your pertner wants to have sex? I mean i guess it can be talked about but i mean like in the heat of the momnet. Im also talking about a relationship not 1-nite-stnds.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey JD...

    From the two posts that I've read of yours it seems like you have sex in your mind as something separate from the relationship. Try not to worry about it too much- focus on the relationship side of it rather than on the physical first and get to know her and what she likes/doesn't like/who she really is, etc. After you know that much about her, you probably won't feel uncomfortable asking her if she wants to have sex because I imagine that you would have already talked about what you want out of the relationship. Also you'll know her and her principles well enough to know if she's interested.

    Try not to worry about things so much. If you can't imagine yourself talking to the girl about sex then you're probably not ready to go through with it. Take things slowly and they will all work themselves out.

    Good luck and keep smiling!
    -Sarah
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's probably best to have talked to her about haveing sex before you do something in the heat of the moment, purely because she might no be ready but might go along with the flow because she doesn't want to upset you.
    Honestly, just talk to her about it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jus fuck her ....jk :P well if she is old enuff.... and u guys are kissin and well ur alone, take her and start foreplay.. if she comply's and doesnt hold back then u know she's up for it!
    good luck my friend <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by SeaShihtzu':
    <STRONG>It's probably best to have talked to her about haveing sex before you do something in the heat of the moment
    </STRONG>

    I agree. Ask her <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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