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How do you keep ladies interested in you?!?!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I am a 20 year old guy that has had many realtionships. The longest being 4 and a half months.

There are many reasons for this the most is that I am always getting hurt by them as they cheat on me. My pals say it is because I am too nice to them. I do everything for them, take them out, buy them gifts show them love and affection but I never do this too soon as I would be daft in doing so I get to know the person first. My motto when seeing someone else is, as long as your happy am happy. But everytime I have tried to make a relationship last I end up getting cheated on or a lame excuse for ending it. Am not saying am giving up but I am turning into a bit of a male slag as with one night stands you can get hurt, this is due to the fact that I am totally losing my trust in ladies which I dont want as I want to have someone to say that I love them and hold them also to bring happiness to there lifes and to know that they feel the same in me, it would make me the happiest guy on earth!!

So my question is: What am I doing wrong? and how do you keep them interested when I start seeing them?? I would really appreciate it if you could give me your views and tips. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;

Being sensible isnt my strong point!! ;o)

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wuckfit, dont give up. i really cant stress that enough. and four and a half months is bloody good going - a mate of mine is nearly thirty, and his longest relationship was just over 6 weeks. mind you, he is a bit of a tart (sorry wayne!).

    you sound like a really nice kinda guy, and you aint exactly an OAP yet! dont change the way you treat women - if you respect others and are nice to them, eventually you will get the same back. keeping them interested is far less about you, and more about them. all you can do is treat them well (which is obviously what you do), and in future you will find someone who actually values you in the same way as you value them.

    hang in their wuck, that's about all the advice i can give for now.

    Nolite te bastardes carborundorum
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Find the right woman and be yourself! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont give up, you sound like a lovely guy. Im sure there are lots of ladys out there who will definately like you the way you are.
    Dont try change yourself as it will show & you wont be happy in the long run.
    Just be patient, you will find the right person & they will love you the way you are.

    Keep smiling & dont give up hope!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If it makes you feel any better the longest relationship that I have had is a month and I am 20 too.

    So hang in there and I am sure that someone will come along in the future who will love you as much as you are willing to love them.
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