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He's got a new g/f after 3 days!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Things hadn't been going well for me and by boyf for about 2-3 weeks, we'd been together a year, and the flame had died and we were bored of each other, relationship-wise. We both decided, on very good terms, to split up. The break-up went very well and we decided to stay best friends..we get on so well and didn't want to lose our friendship too...he's at a college about 30 miles from me and lives in halls. I'm at college, but still living at home. (he's 19, I'm 17)
This would all be fine...if not for the fact that 3 DAYS after we split up, he started going out with another girl!! I really don't know what to think....should I be pissed off? Even though, being pissed off wouldn't change the fact that he has a new g/f. I also fancy another guy, but there's no way I'd start a relationship with him, out of respect for my ex....I just don't know what to do/say/think!!
We're still getting on very well...it's just so wierd that he's with someone else so quickly!
PLEASE HELP!!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i can see why you would be upset,
    I know would be, but there really isnt anything you can do about it....
    I feel sorry for this girl hes with because he is obviously on the rebound!
    Neway...You'll get thru it...just keep smilin!!
    Good luck!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    from wot u say, 2 me there seems 2 b 2 reasons 4 wot hes dun. 1)he cud b just tryin 2 hide the fact that he still has feelins 4 u by gettin another gf 2) speakin from a guys point of view hes a guy, so if he doesnt hav a gf then his m8s r gonna take the piss so he may just b doin it 2 plz them??
    speak 2 him bout it, or 1 of his m8s who u r also m8s wiv
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i love fruit, fruit of all types and sizes. Witout fruit your body would be weak, the vitamins included are a vital part of our bieng and i think we sghould all dedicate our worthless lives to them!!!!

    Don't get me wrong though vegatables are excellant too as are all the fauna of our glorious planet!

    So praise fruit and listen to hard rock theres my message...especially offspring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fly on the wall go fuck yourself you are gettin really annoying to EVERYONE.

    anyway i think hes on the rebound even if both people decide its better to split up it still hurts and its hard to get used to not bein with that person not many relationships that have a person on the rebound in them last very long but don't worry bout it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
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