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dumping your mates
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You dump crap lovers so why not crap mates. If they're driving you mad read this new article of ours: http://ned.thesite.org.uk//relationships/families/dumping_your_mates.html
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There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/flowerface.gif">
Still at least I was honest, and I found out who my REAL friends were, those who don't put conditions on friendship. The cull has made me appreciate more and not to take anything (or anyone) for granted. Be careful with who you trust.
getting rid of crap mates is quite a good idea though!
Nolite te bastardes carborundorum
Problem is now i'm all alone and finding it hard to make new friends. Whats the best way to get in a big group again?
and i spose the best way of getting into a group is to make get to know a couple of people in the group n then take it from there. You'd start to be included that way.
xxxxxs
Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind-
Shakespeare
I wouldn't make a habit of it, and haven't before.
Does anyone else feel like sometimes they've moved on, n ur friends r stuck in a rut behind u? - or is that just me?! lol
xxxs
Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind-
Shakespeare
It wasn't me! - honest.
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god that was bitchy!! everyone can relax now, my rant is over!!! i feel better for that!
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
Anywho, in a way it was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. I dropped those friends pretty quick and moved onto someone's sofa until I turned 18.
During that time I also decided to go through all my friends and weed out all the ones that had ever hurt me badly. Anyone I thought was taking advantage of my generosity in any way I got rid of. Anyone I felt I had to keep chasing to be my friend I got rid of. And at the same time as weeding out some people, I went through all my friends mentally and thought of those who had never hurt me. I called them and re-made contact.
As a result, when I left England in August I had a small group of people I knew I could count on no matter what. They may not have been the "coolest" group of friends I've ever had but I could have a laugh with them and know that I'd never catch them laughing at me behind my back.
Semper ubi sub ubi
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