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Is he interested? Im confused!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I got a text from my ex boyfriend last night. He asked if I had a good holiday and also was wondering why I rang him a while ago after everything that happened between us. I replied and said I called because I missed him and wanted to see how he was. I havnt had a reply yet. Anyways this seems a bit random to me. Do you think it means he is interested in me? Maybe he is just confused about me. I keep getting mixed signals from him, but then he probably feels the same about me. <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds like he probably just wants to be mates. If he was still interested he should have txted u back and said he missed u too (or something along those lines).
    You didnt say what happened between you but it mustn't be good for you both to break up over so maybe it is best to stay friends, but you should definitely talk to him and find out how he feels. then you will know for certain and wont be confused. Maybe you are a match made in heaven or maybe you are total opposites, I dont know you so cant really tell. Hope this helps
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Probably wants to be mates that just get in contact not very often. i have an EX like that,gets in contact about once every 2 months. Stupid,I know,but better than being cold to eachother.xx <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Fairy:
    <STRONG>He ... was wondering why I rang him a while ago after everything that happened between us. I replied and said I called because I missed him and wanted to see how he was. I havnt had a reply yet.</STRONG>

    Hey Fairy, read the quote I took from your post for yourself and see what you think. If you tell a guy who is interested in you that you miss him and want to know how he is, he replies. This guy didn't - he isn't interested.

    Sorry I don't have better news, but that's how it is.

    Actually, it seems like it is you who are confused and sending mixed signals. You are trying to get back with him, sending him messages, then acting like it means he's interested if he responds ... when all it necessarily means is that you confused him and he wants to know why.

    Now that all doesn't mean that you can't go after him and maybe win him back if you want to. But don't muddle yourself over who is chasing who. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for the replies people. Black Knight I think you are correct in what you said! I am just going to leave things for the moment I think with him. If I see him by chance I might try and talk to him.
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