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should i be jealous?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
me and my b.f have been going out for 3 1/2 months and he's best friend is a girl. it didnt bother me at first but it has started to as he is always round her house and jokes that they are having an affair. i dont like her very much (i know its stupid but . . .) she is a perfect girly girl whos preety, a dancer, had loads of b/f etc whereas im abit of a tomboy, not stunning, cant dance to safe my life and this is my 3rd relationship in my life!!

but the thing thats is really bothering me a making write this post is it my best mate (boy) b'day soon and i havent been invited cause it was a boys nite but now she is going even though she hates my best mate. wired or what?

im probably overreacting as i do this alot but has anyone got any ideas.

(edited cause i was never any good at english! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> )

[ 25-02-2002: Message edited by: Goldie ]
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i would be jealous but if there is nothing going on dont pressure your boyfriend!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My best friend is a boy (me being female) and my ex used to ate me being around him and used to kick up a fuss- yet all his best friends were girls- and I used to get jealous all the time but made nothing of it. He also used to joke that he was going off with them, and it only stopped when I told him it was getting to me and asked him if any of it was true? He didn't understand- thinking I was insane until I explained that he'd never given me excuse to believe otherwise. surely if you don't tell him why it's getting to you- then he will continue- because to him, he's only kidding. To you it's more.
    And the whole the girl going to yours best friends doo and not you even tho it was meant to b men only- maybe ur best friend likes this girl and is using this as his chance- you shud ask him about it. If he says no i dont facy then ask him- how come you've invited her along then. Do it casually! I'm sure he wont mind you asking!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My boyfriend gets very jealous all the time cos I have many men as friends. I have to lie to him when I go out with my friends that are men otherwise he goes MAD! I'd rather not risk him goin mad at me cos its scary so I just lie to him. I would tell your boyfriend how u feel and then if that doesn't work then punch that pretty little bitche's face in next time u see her! Ha ha! No don't,thats like something i'd do. Lol. Just show her that ur with him and that he loves u not her. That should sort her out,if not call me up and I'll sort her out for you. Lol. xx <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jellygirl16:
    <STRONG>My boyfriend gets very jealous all the time cos I have many men as friends. I have to lie to him when I go out with my friends that are men otherwise he goes MAD! I'd rather not risk him goin mad at me cos its scary so I just lie to him. I would tell your boyfriend how u feel and then if that doesn't work then punch that pretty little bitche's face in next time u see her! Ha ha! No don't,thats like something i'd do. Lol. Just show her that ur with him and that he loves u not her. That should sort her out,if not call me up and I'll sort her out for you. Lol. xx <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    WEEELLLL - are you condoning lying - do you think it would be better if her boyfriend lied to her about this girl going? How suspicious would that look. At least he's being open and letting her know she's going, I'd be more worried if he were keeping it from me! Then I'd really worry something was going on.

    Mind you - If his reason for not letting you go is that its a lads night and then he invites a girl I think you have a reason to be annoyed with him and you should have a word ... with him not her.

    If she's after him the worst thing you can do is freak out because she'll know you feel threatened and will be able to spot your insecurities about your relationship and will use them against you to get what she wants.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    do you want to here something funny my b/f split up with me the on tuesday night and his best friend split up with her b/f on monday nite. would you say it was just a conicedence?

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