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My doubts are destroying me!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey, just looking for some advice on my relationship. I'm deeply in love with my bf but lately i have been having a lot of doubts about us. We have talked about it but he just thinks its because i have a bad home life <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> !!

Neway, we have been going out for just over six months now, and the thing is that i'm not sure theres any point continuing the relationship because i don't think it's going to last. The reason i think this is because i'm only 15 and this is my very first relationship and it is a very serious relationship.

Just wanted to see what other people thought about this. Cheers

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I get that feeling sometimes. I'm 16, and have been with my bf for nearly a year. I love him, I don't want to ruin it at all - but I get scared sometimes. we're young, we can't be together forever, the chances of that happening are minuscule.

    the answer is to take it as it comes <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> don't be pressured into anything (which I'm sure you won't), concentrate on keeping your own life as well as your life with your boyfriend. you need your own things too. be yourself with him. care about his feelings but care about your own as well.

    and above all, enjoy it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers for all your help and advice! I am definately gona stick with my bf. He makes me happy and we love eachother.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Glad to hear that Debs. Be kinda fucked if you tried to dump him with the reason "I'm sorry, I can't go out with you because I'm too insecure".
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my mates parents are now over 40, and they been together since they were 14, if u love him, then maybe u will be 2gether 4eva, but only split up if u fall out of love with him, as long as u love him, stay with him
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