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do i wait??

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
recently i met this bloke, and he came on to me and i got his number but then i found out he hada girlfriend so i said lets just be friends! but as we got to know each other we got on so well!it was weird, like i'd found my soul mate or somthing!! well any way, i went to his house one day, just as friends but he kissed me!!!!!!!! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> and asked me what i wanted! so i told tha truth that ive never felt like this about ne1!!bt he sed, im sorry i love my girlfriend!!but i really like u!! and did all tha usual "if..."stuff!!
then recently i said, do u actaully even wanna b friends with me?? he said, yer but im scared if we get too close il fall in love with u!!
then he said i want u 2 wait 4me, please it would mean the world to me!!
so
am i bein really really niave?? im so confuzed!! i really really like him!!!
HELP ME!!!!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssexBabe:
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    then he said i want u 2 wait 4me, please it would mean the world to me!!
    so
    am i bein really really niave?? im so confuzed!! i really really like him!!!
    HELP ME!!!!!!!</STRONG>


    STAY AWAY. That little line is his way of saying "Will you be my backup plan if things with my girlfriend don't work out?". Don't trust this guy.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    eugh! i hate guys like that - just stay away, if things dont work out between him and his girlfriend you dont want to be accused of being the reason beind the relationship breaking down
    stay away!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    keep your distance. He is talking a line of shit. Wants his cake and to eat it too!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    whats to say that if you and him start going out that he wont be unfaithfull to you? do u really trust him?!?!?!?!?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He wants his girlfriend and he wants you - does that sound fair? He's either too chicken to dump his girlfriend or he thinks you are really stupid.

    I bet he's done this before.

    How do you think his girlfriend would feel if she found out - pretty shitty I'd think. and if he did leave her (Or she dumped him) how can you be sure he won't be doing the same to you behind your back.

    If you really want to know the situation give him an ultimatum..'Dump the girlfriend or back off'
    he'll show his true colours then but I bet any money he'll lie through his teeth to try and keep you both!
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