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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I don't understand... but this time it ain't the guy I don't get. It's myself.
I've been mates with this guy for about a year now. For a lot of it he has fancied me, but I'm kinda used to it by now. He says he loves me. He knows exactly what he wants. But I don't. Like, he's loverly, don't get me wrong, but he's never been the one I wanted, I've never fancied him. Fair enuff you say, why are you on here, you have no problem! But I do...
We meet up a lot in a group out of school, and when we are watching vids or whatever we always end up next to each other, and generally by the end his hand is somewhere it shouldn't be (no where really major!!) and we've been on the verge of snogging almost every time. We were at a party last night and I was sat on his knee letting him do whatever, but not kissing, and then I realised that I lead him on. Badly. He was txtin me telling me how much he liked me. I don't know what to do, I don't wanna stop ,thats the point. But I can't keep on hurting him, blowing hot n cold... HELP!!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ever heard that honesty is the best policy....well its tru darlin. i think u shud tell him how u feel, get it off ur chest so he knos where he stands. its gonna b hard 1 kno, but its betta than leadin him on and then 2 gets even more hurt lol
    good luck chuck <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've had this before, me being that fella, and believe me, honesty is the best policy definately. It's not nice, but there you go! I ended up being led on for ages, and when I was eventually put in my place, it broke my heart - BUT - I got over it, as will he!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You've probably heard this all before, but darling, honestly reallyis the best policy. Explain to him gently yet firmly that you can't keep leading him on like this, you don't see him in a romantic light, and can you guys just be friends? The exact same thing happened with two of my mates earlier this year, and they sorted it and are as good mates as they ever were. Its for his own good <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Luv moi
    xxx
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