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Confusion

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi This is my first entry and an insight into my world filled of confusion and questions!!!Obviously my problem is gonna start with 'this guy' uve all probably heard it all before but to me this is a problem thats buggin me and that id like help with !!!Anyway i met up with an old friend the other day and he ended up coming onto me but instead of actually letting him i stopped him im not sure why coz i cant stop thinking about him now!!The problem is i have no way of contacting him as he has no mobile fone (i know a teenager withut a fone !!!) and he lives far away !!! Its killing me inside that i might see him again one day but i dont know when but at the minute i cant stop thinking about him .What does all this mean and how do i find out how he feels or whether im ever going to see him again .plz help any advice welcome .........constantly confused xxx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hiya! Firstly... omigod! A teen without a phone! Endangered species people! LOL!
    Seriously now, the fact that you stopped him shows clearly that you're unsure of how you feel about him. Girl, he lives far away, as you say. What are the chances of you bumping into him for a while? Write on a bit of paper what you do and dont like about him.
    If theres more stuff in the dislike part, then he isnt worth the hassle. You're better off with someone else. If theres more stuff in the like column, you're stuffed, quite frankly!
    But really, long distance lovers don't work. Trust me, been there, done that. You're better off with someone closer to home.

    Luv moi
    xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok, he hasn't got a mobile, but do you know his landline number? His address? (You could look it up in the phone book if you're not sure). Ring him up, or write to him, asking to meet up again - if he came on to you, he's obviously interested. Don't let this one slip away if you've got the chance, or you'll kick yourself for not making a move when you could.
    How far away does he live? Despite what Tashmania says, long distance relationships CAN work, with a bit of effort. My relationship's been long distance for 8 months now, since my boyfiend selfishly decided to graduate! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HI thanx for the advice i am worried that i have missed my chance but i mean the chances of me seeing him again all depend on whether our parents meet up or not as both of our parents are friends so when we pass by we drop in but we might not travel up there for another few months even years who knows!! Im trying to move on despite the constant fact that hes always on my mind but im definately gonna have to make him buy a mobile arn't i !!!!Neway any more suggestions will be greatly appreciated although the contact i do have is his mums mobile number but that surely cant help me can it ?? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    izzy xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Surely if his parents are mates with your parents, their LANDLINE number will be in your phone book.

    Just a thought <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Constantly Confused:
    <STRONG>i do have is his mums mobile number but that surely cant help me can it ?? xxx</STRONG>

    If you want to see him as much as you say you do, why don't you just call his Mum and leave your number with her, asking that she gets him to phone you?
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