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Strip clubs and showgirls: Your opinion please?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I was watching a program on Sky One last night, Naked in Westminster. It's about the stripclub business.

I was wondering, it is ok (right or wrong) to go to strip clubs? How about your opinion on showgirls? What are their personality like? Let's say that you met this girl, but she works as a lap dancer, would her field of work bother you? There were these two great dancers there, who were actually trained ballerinas (did I spell it right?), and the reason (that they gave on TV) for working as showgirls is because of the money.

Basically, I'm asking this: Does working in strip clubs downgrades a girls/woman personality? Does this make sense?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think that if men are willing to pay big money to see a lady dancing, they are the ones who are being used.

    When you go out clubbing and wear revealing clothes and dance to sexy music, it's the same thing, men are looking at you thinking "phwarr", so why not get paid for it? I have no problem with girls that do this, although if I was a bloke I wouldn't want my g/f doing it because of jealousy.

    Although it's hardly a life time career, to me, what is more demeaning:

    dancing with your tits out

    spending 40 hours a week doing data entry for minimum wage

    ??? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is no way related to the girls/women that work in strip clubs or whatever but personally I think strip clubs are for sad pathetic sleazy bastards!!!

    I went to one with my mate and hated it, my mate loved it and was considering weather he should buy a personal dance with his tenner or get more drinks when I was wanting to get the fuck out of there and go to an actual night club!! I didnt think it was fun, I got no enjoyment from it and I certainly didnt feel comfortable as I thought I was a very sad about it when I was in a strip club. Even though the club was a reptuable club and was meant for the more sophisticated man I still thought it was sleazy as it was full of guys basically wanting to look at a bodies of women, imagining what they would want to do to the woman. When infact they have no chance at all as they are all fat thick bastards.

    For some strange reason most men that go think that the women are actually interested in them, and that has got to be one of the funniest things about it.

    Thats my opinion on strip clubs <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, thats true, men who go to stripclubs are those who arent getting any <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Its not demeaning to the women, theyre getting paid very good money to show a bit of flesh, which many girls seem to do in nightclubs for nowt, to sad men. Its the man whos getting used, paying so much money to see some tits.

    Having said that, I wouldnt be too happy if my gf was a stripper...I dont want to share her body, thanks <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="smile">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think going to stripclubs is the sign that your sexual appetite is going wrong.

    After all, wouldn't it be odd if you went to a club where you paid shedloads of dosh to have people wave food under your nose....and strictly no eating allowed !!

    Stripclubs are basically the same, but with sex waved under your nose instead of food.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Heeheehee!!

    I've been to a strip club, and enjoyed it!!

    Guess that makes me one sad mofo if the above is true. I pretty sure my sexual appetite isn't going wrong though, and I'm even more sure I'm not a fat thick twat.

    To be fair, I went for a mates birthday to a non-seedy club, and he was a colossal pervert (as in the Bishop of Bath and Wells for any Blackadder fans), but I still thought it was funny. If I'd been on my own I wouldn't have been comfortable with it, but with a group of mates it was hilarious. The girls obviously know what effect they have on guys and played to it.

    Haven't ever been since, but it was funny as a one-off experience.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What's the point of going to a strip club? I've been a few times and I'm not really impressed. It's like going to a restaurant and paying for a huge steak that's put in front of you. You can look at it, you can smell it, you paid for it, but you can't eat it....
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