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What do you prefer on the opposit sex?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Ok. to start this i want to know what people like best about the opposite sex, what features i mean!

I love my girlfriend, and i think she has a fantastic arse! not to mention gorgeous breasts!

i understand there have probably been many topics like this but i am curious anyway!

Cae9
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my boyfriend has a gorgeous jaw line (only i can notice these things!) and he has the worlds greatest pair of butt cheeks mmmm oh fuck it, he looks great naked! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My bf is perfect in everyway. I wouldn't change one thing about him!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my bf has the most amazing eyes. I know it's clichéd but they're such a deep sexy brown, almost almond-shaped but not quite; they fit perfectly with the rest of his facial features. another thing I love about him is his chest <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

    but he's gorgeous all over.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gotta have a great face..Anything else is a bonus.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Depends which sex we're talking about here...

    Girls - Cute face, Cracking arse and legs

    Lads - Cute face, tanned, puppy eyes
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmmm, I like medium sized, lots of curves. Nice face and nice smile is a must.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ohhh so many things so little space! LOL! Lads, you've gotta have the eyes. Lets face it, I'm not the only one who melts when faced with a deep pair of eyes. Preferably dark brown or dark blue, but hey! Being tall and having dark hair are bonuses!

    Loadsa Luv
    Me
    xxxx <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "a man who loves music/a man who loves art/ respects the spirit world/and thinks with his heart"
    india arie

    i also like skinny men
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ana_rack:
    <STRONG>i also like skinny men</STRONG>

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> Hey there lil lady! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

    I prefer woman with a bit of meat, ie i don't like really skinny women.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm a sucker for a cheeky grin! Thats what I'll notice first..then I'll go for sexy, come to bed eyes! A nice tanned, toned body would be a bonus!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by funlovnchic:
    <STRONG>I'm a sucker for a cheeky grin!</STRONG>

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> That'll be my speciality as a cheeky Northern monkey then! Shame the rest of me looks like Johnny Vegas (I'm joking).

    Women with cute smiles and a good rack are always nice. Small hands are essential. I think I'd go for a brunette over a blonde in most cases. Good definition of the back is sexy too. Mmmmmmmm..... backs!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A cute smile on a pretty face always winds me over....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm...I quite like strong defined jaw lines on guys - I don't know why.

    I love to snuggle into my boyfriends belly when we're laid next to each other - its all flat and toned and smooth - usually warm too! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

    I like eyes - ones that are so intricate you can look into them for ages and ages. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    I like a guy to be open minded about things - to have his own opinion but not to force it on to anyone, or ridicule other people because of theirs

    I just love guys - they're so interesting <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Eyes (ones you can stare into) and smile (that makes others smile too).
    Hugs - seriously, you can tell a lot by a person's hug.
    Personality (one that makes people happy and has 'witty repetoire').

    But I reckon that even if you're the most gorgeous person in the world, if you have a nasty personality then you're beyond ugly.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Heyz! Adding to my previous post, a guy MUST MUST MUST be able to hold a conversation!!!!! Its no use having the most gorgeous guy in the world on your arm when he cant even string two words together! Im not asking for a philosopher fluent in the work of Socrates, just a guy who can talk!!! Jeez! Mind you, a nice face wouldn't go amiss. Oh, and PLEASE, no scrubs. Not asking for a guy who is rolling in it (would be nice though) just someone who can pay his own way. Phew! Anyone think they come up to my standards??? <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">

    Luv moi <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
  • Porky_StalkerPorky_Stalker Posts: 108 The Mix Convert
    Its got to be the persons mind... their personality, their ability to have a decent convesation with you, the way they think about life...

    Oh and a nice face/smile helps....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Besides the obvious things you notice about guys the biggest thing I like is shoulders. I like a man with really broad shoulders and some muscle definiton on his back, arms, and chest leading up to it. Doesn't have to be a lot but it is necessary for him to have broad shoulders- they make it so that when he hugs me, no matter how tall or big he is, I feel small and protected in his arms.

    Other than that small obsession of mine- the next thing would be a guys hands. I don't know how to describe what I like and don't about hands but you can usually tell a lot about a person from their hands.

    Maybe those are just weird quirks of mine though.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have pretty odd taste, so you'll have to excuse me.

    If I'm in a room with a whole load of blokes, I won't normally go for one who's conventially good looking.

    For me, it can be anything - amazing eyes, nice clothes (and that can mean nearly anything... some blokes look damn sexy in smart clothes, some look gorgeous in a hoodie and jeans), s cute smile, and, like with a lot of people, he HAS to have a good personality.

    At the moment, I can't stop thinking about a bloke who I know isn't conventionally good looking, but who just lights up when you get him talking, and gets the sweetest furrowed brow when he's thinking.

    *goes off into a daydream*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cae9:
    <STRONG>Ok. to start this i want to know what people like best about the opposite sex, what features i mean!</STRONG>

    Cuteness.
    No one feature, more a collection of them.
    The most beautiful girl would be let down by a 2nd rate personality.
    Mind you...eyes and smile are important.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my boyfriend is perfect in everyway! fit and cute hes very sporty. i do love his cheeky smile though and his puppy eyes.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like the way my girlfriend laughs and she has nice thighs <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="smile">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hagen Daz <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="smile">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My bf i will admit has the best personality and he has this little curl in his surfers fringe which curls the wrong way not matter how hard its attacked by gell and stuff its wont move one of tyhe many things that i lve bout ma bf
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would have to say the really cute George Clooney dimple that my boyfriend has in his chin! Crazy hey! And his bum and his tummy and the tatoo on his calf is really nice as well (and I usually hate tatoos!) <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="smile">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I always judge a guy by his hug. If it is tight and warm so u feel safe and secure then he is an great guy in my book. This rules out looking at people purely on looks or personality. I have to admit that this approach has had it's many downfall but my present bloke gives a great hug and gives great other stuff too. (and i meant romance!!) <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Okay, this is not going to help, but this is what I find attractive.

    There are a certain number of characteristics which combine and transform a woman in to a classy lady. Whatever that is, it works for me.

    There's got to be some elegance, some grace, and some poise, along with the right look and an attractive personality.

    Bit demanding, eh?

    The single most attractive feature of a woman is her ability to trust you. If she trusts you, and knows that she can tell you anything, and vice-versa, then all the rest is simple. If a woman lets me in to her heart, as a friend and as a person, then that's it - that's all that matters. Because only then can you see that all of the superficial nonsense does not matter. Once you can see in to her heart, then things take on a new meaning. Certain surface features become attractive, the curve of a hip, or the dimple when she smiles. That's what makes someone attractive, because you share them, and they come from between you. And, ultimately, it's that you miss the most - the shared things - the smell of hair, or the way her smile makes your day. Treasure them. You may not have them forever.

    *goes and weeps in the corner, quietly.*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *returns from corner temporarily to apologise for being so silly and sentimental*

    Sorry. That's not quite in keeping. Ignore the last bit.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my friends all tell me i'm too picky, but I think it's a good thing that I know what I do and don't like... right?

    Anyway, the things I find attractive in a bloke are...

    1) Nice hair - Greasy lank hair or sumfin which doesnt suit a guy is OUT. I will not stand for it!

    2) Teeth - yellow or crooked teeth are such a turn off.

    3) Individual dress sense. My guy knows what he likes and he isn't swayed by what everyone on the high street is wearing. He also looks damn fine in almost anything, but thats another story...

    4) If he doesn't make me laugh then he isn't worth the hassle.

    5) Interesting coloured eyes, I think its unusual things like that which captivate me.

    Last but not least my guy has give good presents. Dont get me wrong, I would be so happy with a poem or a rose, just as happy as I wud be with perfume or something expensive. But if a guy buys me something which is more inspired by them than me and is totally not me then im sorry, but he just doesnt know me! For example, my ex gave me a gold chain for christmas. Very nice, but I dont tend to wear very much jewellery, and he has never EVER in the history of time seen me wear gold! Call me an insensitive bitch but he'd known me for 5 months by that point and it goes to prove how much attention he was paying!
    GRRRRR.... <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    ***faerie***
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Insensitive bitch <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    A girls gotta have a lovely personality, can make me laugh and make me feel protected and wanted, but lets get physical...

    Beautiful face and smile, with green or brown eyes. Smallish, pert breats, and a great arse. Basically my gf, cept shes got big boobs hehe.

    But a girls gotta know how to hug and cuddle, I like it when a girl melts into my arms and wants to snuggle right up to me. Call me romantic, but thats life <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my boyfriend has the sexiest hands....and how talented they are aswell

    never ceases to impress me, when hes being nice anyways.... <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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