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Am i just bein naive?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
my bf of ten months recently told me he thought we argued too much and he'd rather be friends! well basically i was gutted and begged him too think twice! we spoke about it and he said he realised that he didnt want to lose me either and that we should try and work things out! that was four days ago!
now i feel very confused! does he really want 2b wiv me or his he doin it so i dont get upset! its also changed things! i love him more than anythin and i thought he felt the same! i want to repair things but at the mo its killin me - wud it b easier just to let go?
any help wud b gr8 thanx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you love him more than anything??!! right well he has said he wants to see if you can patch things up! then i would say try patch it up!

    You may find that it brings you a whole lot closer together!!!

    Hope this helps a bit!

    Cae9
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    Porky_StalkerPorky_Stalker Posts: 108 The Mix Convert
    Hell if it has made you love him even more then i think you should try and sort things out,
    Speak to him, ask him what he really wants

    What do you mean four days ago? so has he not spoken to you about it since then? he might just be scared that he doesent want to make things worse, so hes may be waiting for you to talk to him.

    He said that he didnt want to lose you and wanted to try and work things out - i dont think hes just saying that so you dont get upset...
    It sounds like he is thinking exactly what you are...

    Talk to him about it...

    Hope this helps...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    People in relationships often tell each other they want to split up to test the other person't reaction. Usually it's not really that well thought through and when you realise exactly what it would mean if you split up then you change your mind. Just have a chat about why you've been arguing, maybe u live in each others pockets or something. I'm sure you guys will work it out no probs <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    he was probably having a bad day ask him what is wrong and if you both love each other there shouldnt be a huge problem
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