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I gave it to him.........By hand!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey to everyone that replies.......
Okay, there's this guy that I have a MAJOR crush on called Grant, and the other day, I wrote out a card and gave it to him, before we broke up from school. It was a valentines card that said: "To/ The one with the spikes, you're the one that I likes, All of my love Beth xxx" do u think that it's too corny ?
He seemed chuffed about it, and was telling my frends about it.......
What do I do now ?Is the ball in his court ? I don't know him very well, but would like to, how would I go about getting to know him better....he doesn't have the internet, never has any credit on his mobile and lives in a different area to me......
Any comments would be appreciated !
Love, TheShyGirlBeth xXx <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that happened 2 me! but i was the lad and girl gave me valentines card! when it happened with me, she then left everythin 2 me 2 do anythin and it all messed up!
    my advice is (your on hol at mo right) so see if can get his number and just ring him and meet or when go back 2 school talk 2 him!
    ask him if he likes u, before it goes 2 far!
    if he does then just talk 2 him, ask 2 meet up, go bowlin or cinema u know the usual!
    but dont seem desperate or he might just use u!
    hope that helps a little?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would ask him out for a drink or something. get his number and tell him you want to meet during the hols in town or something, for lunch, then you could get talking, get friendly and find out if he likes you in the same way!

    Cae9
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Can I just say how much I hate valentines day?? I always end up hiding even when I do have a gf.

    SG beth - I think its probably up to you to start ringing him (it'll b flattering to his pride etc) and show him your really interested. make sure he knows and try and meet up with him (i like coffee shops)

    Kathryn - very tempted to rant on the stupidity of not making the first move but suffice to say if a guy really REALLY likes you hes gonna b so nervous making the first move you'll probably ignore him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm so very impressed with u! I'd never have had the guts to hand it to him! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> eek indeed! Hope it all goes well for u lovie, but try to consider your subject line a bit more carefully in future <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="smile">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If i was in your position, i would ask him if he felt anything for me.
    But then again thats me and im odd!!hehe in a good way though!
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    xxxxx
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