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Women, prefer being in control or not?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Ok, i've had quite a few girls, and im really laid back. I basically let the girl be in control while i just sit back, my last ex told me that the problem with me was that i was too nice, and didn't argue with her or anything. Surely no-arguments is a good thing?

Well now she wants me back, but i found a new girl which im really happy with, and i aint gonna leave her.

So what should i do with this girl? Be in control? Argue with her?

Need a lil help <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Danka

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well its simple really, if you agree with things that she has asked you to do or wants you to do etc then don't agrue. But if she is nagging and you don't want to do what she is asking you to do then just tell her, you don't necessarily have to have an argument.

    Everyone has arguments now and again, so if I was you I would stay where you are as your sound happy with your current girlfriend.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by becky_boop:
    <STRONG>Well its simple really, if you agree with things that she has asked you to do or wants you to do etc then don't agrue. But if she is nagging and you don't want to do what she is asking you to do then just tell her, you don't necessarily have to have an argument.

    Everyone has arguments now and again, so if I was you I would stay where you are as your sound happy with your current girlfriend.</STRONG>


    I always end up getting walked allover im thinking of changing my name to Mat <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Be urself if she try's to change you that means she doesnt like who u are... and thats means shes not the one for u...

    goodluck
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