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I'm single

Last night I broke up with my girlfriend. We'd been together for over a year, but uni life in cities 150 miles apart changed things. Thing is, I was upset at the time, but now I'm just confused. I don't know why but for some reason I still want to wear her ring on my finger, I tried taking it off last night but it felt weird. It's not just that, if I ever found someone else, at the moment I would feel like I was cheating on her or something.
I still love her, and she says she still loves me, and hopefully we will stay best friends, although I can't help feeling that when I see her again it will take all my willpower to stop myself from kissing her.
It's all just so surreal.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im sorry to hear that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    But if you both still love each other maybe you should meet up again when shes back home, itll only be a week or two. Long-distance relationships are tough, but if you both claim you still love each other maybe its worth a second attempt? Just dont try anything whilst shes still away, talk about it when shes back.

    Good luck, hope you get everything sorted and you get what you want <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    "Men rarely, if ever, manage to dream up a god superior to themselves. Most gods have the
    morals of spoilt children." Robert A. Heinlein
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit:
    Im sorry to hear that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    But if you both still love each other maybe you should meet up again when shes back home, itll only be a week or two. Long-distance relationships are tough, but if you both claim you still love each other maybe its worth a second attempt? Just dont try anything whilst shes still away, talk about it when shes back.

    Good luck, hope you get everything sorted and you get what you want <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    Thanks, but I'm not sure if we will get back together or not, recently we were just gettin on each others nerves, the strain of not seeing each other was beginning to show itself. I hope that when we do see each other again it will be good, I'll just have to wait and see.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ste, im sorry 2 hear that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; when me and jamie split up i felt just like u i still have a box of stuff i collected when i was with him but i have taken all his pics down etc.

    even when im out i still feel like i cant pull becos it will be like cheating on him. i hope everything works out for u both, u know where i am if u need to chat.

    take care, xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm so so sorry 2 hear that whowhere! I thought u and ur gf were goin' strong.
    Same story with me though, distance gets u in the end.
    I'm not sure what i can say that would help at all, but i'm here if u need some1 to complain to <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; ok?
    Love Sea xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aww hun i'm so sorry to hear that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; I don't really know what to say except the usual 'it will get better blah blah blah' that everyone says.

    Just take your time <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; Good luck xxx
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