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Y DO I GET SO DEPRESSED?!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi. i'm new on ere. 14/f/notts. neways i get so depressed all the time just cos i avnt got a bf. it really gets me down n sumtimes i cry myself to sleep cos of it. Its not that all boys who know me dont like me. its probably cos i'm good m8s wiv most of em n it'd seem weird if i was more. Also, i dont have the courage to go up to sum1 wen i'm out.LOL. I'm just really shy. I just wanna b loved <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, like, depression is an illness. see "health" section for more.
    anyway, sorry 2 hear ure feelin shit like that, i used to be like that coz i had more lad mates than gurl mates, but i was always too shy to ask out the lad mates wen i liked em. so that pretty much sucked. and i know u probly wanna believe r hear this but it does get better as u get older, or so im told. not that i'd personally say that, i just dont giv a fuck anymore so it doesnt bother me as much. sorry, i hope that at least helps u a bit.
    oh and welcme to thesite btw
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Barbie Gurl, welcome to TheSite <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    I know exactly how you feel! I used to be like that myself a couple of months ago. I'd be depressed about lots of stuff and I convinced myself that nobody liked me because I was skinny. A few months down the line I meet Emma and now I'm really happy with her!!!!

    Now i find other stuff to be depressed about <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Don't let it get you down cause you will meet somebody sooner or later and when you do it'll feel a whole lot better believe me! People say you find a partner out of nowhere and I did! I didn't even have a best friend but now I have somebody who I can open up to and share my deepest, darkesk secrets with <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Oh and seen as Al isn't here to say this for himself then I'll post this link on behalf of him www.depressionalliance.org and people will help you there if your really worried.

    Take care of yourself and each other (Feels all Jerry Springerish all of a sudden)

    Mark

    I had an IQ test. The results came back negative
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Original Prankster:
    ....I didn't even have a best friend but now I have somebody who I can open up to and share my deepest, darkesk secrets with <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    barbie you WILL find someone, i know what its like though, in year 9 i used to have more male friends than female ones and i kinda liked one of them but i didnt do anything about it! my life story really lol..

    but honestly, you find somneone when you're least expecting it. i had thought i was gonna be single till i got to uni and hopefully meet someone there, after i broke up with my first bf... but then i met mark from here <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    you will find someone barbie, try not to worry for now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sorry to know what ur so unhappy at the moment. i know a lot of people that feels the same way as u. they wud blame themselves for looking too fat or too skinny...when in reality, there is nothing wrong with them. personality always come first!

    at 14 ur still young. i didn't have my first kiss till that age, or a proper b/f till i was 16. there is always someone out there for everyone. u just gotta give it time. ur only 14...and u have plenty of time!!

    having a b/f can sometimes be a pain in the ass. don't know wud anyone else agree, but for me, sometimes it certainly is. don't believe all that movie "love forever" cuz in reality, there is a lot more attached to the words than u think. it's a emotional rollercoaster ride if u ask me...and it can fuck up ur head sometimes.

    in the meantime, just enjoy life. have fun with ur mates and flirt with the guys! some times guys are better friends than boyfriends. they're great to hang out with! don't go to the hassle of looking for love...let it come and find you. and when it does...well, goodluck!!


    children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my god you're just like me, only not as bad. i'm 17 and have never had a girlfriend or even a proper kiss. it does get me down sometimes, but i know i'll be ok in the end. as long as you have plenty of mates (i didn't used to but do now) and love yourself you'll be alright.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey BG,
    You ought to just ask your friend out. 9 times out of 10 you know that you will make a good couple because you already know each other so well,
    you should give it a go, and if they say no, forget about it.
    Good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    p.s.Another person from Notts, yippee!

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    the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    this alwasy happens to me...seriously....and it is pissin!but i swear the moment you stop subconsciously lookin or atleast worrying about this, and just be friends with these boys, you will find someone..
    it happened to me ..its like when you look for biology course work.you can never find it.but when your not looking....you find it.thats bloody annoying mind! but seriously when you just take these boys as what they are friends,...anything can happen.and does most of the time! cheer up..boys are bloody pains in the arse anyway lol!!
    what did it feel like to hit the ground...it felt like the sun.....we are hollow y'know..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I`m gonna be straight here.
    If you like someone and you think he feels the same way, ask him out somewhere where it`ll be just u two.
    Fuck awkwardness and how weird it could be if you get together, concentrating on making it happen first.
    I know wot its like to be depressed due to lack of partner, hell I go through bouts of depression every few months for absolutely no reason! But that`ll get you nowhere.
    If u can`t ask them out to their faces, do it via email or SMS as, trust me, it is easier that way.
    Friends is fine, but if u want more then go for it. Yeah sure you could lose a friend, but you could gain a lover... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    "Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    all i have to say to this post is to sing a line from bluetones - putting out fires "losing a lover, gaining a friend". sorry had to be done, talyn reminded me.

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
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