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The dance floor dillemma

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
OK, I've just read the post on body language and realized that there is another situation in determining whether a girl likes you and at least wants to dance with you, or wants to get off with you etc. The post seems to assume you are able to talk to the girl.

What about the situation where you are on a dance floor, in a cheesy club with cheesy music and you think someone might like you, but it is too loud anywhere in the club to have a decent conversation with them. Firstly how are you meant to read their signals, for example if they are backing into you and pushing their bum against yours, is it a sign, or is it just crowded.

Secondly how are you meant to react to this kind of situation?

I would actually go to better places but all my friends seem to like this kind of place and I'm not really the kind to lone wolf.

Be a thinker, but yet be still a man. Over-analyzation can be self defeating.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    at last someone else after my own heart.
    Girls are all into this 'chatting to them first' lark before trying to pull them but like u say, most of the time its too noisy in a club to talk.

    we just cant win. bugger.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RattleSnake:
    for example if they are backing into you and pushing their bum against yours, is it a sign, or is it just crowded.


    lol about the over crouding thing
    well i really think they wanna dance with u, u cant tell if its over crouded cause she wont wanna give u the wrong immpression so will try not 2 do it 2 play u along
    just play along with her do what she is, it will worku could turn round put ur hands on her hips
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm tried the hands on hips thing once. Was with one of my best friends. She sounded a bit suprised and pissed off with me. Never done it since. She was always very flirty with me though.

    Anyway if I do get to the situation when they're round my front, I tend to get embarassed or confused and freeze up. Tend to avoid that situation nowadays. Maybe it's a confidence thing, I'm not sure.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by x-rated_rebelgrl:
    just play along with her do what she is, it will worku could turn round put ur hands on her hips........
    Grab her handbag and run!

    Soz, but need a laugh today. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rubberskin:
    Grab her handbag and run!

    I would make some remark about getting a damned good spanking for that but you might enjoy it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">!!!

    All evil needs to thrive is for good men to sit back and do nothing
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Marmite:
    I would make some remark about getting a damned good spanking for that but you might enjoy it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; !!!


    There's absolutely no might about it. How dare you know me so well. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rubberskin:
    There's absolutely no might about it. How dare you know me so well. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    lol..u always crack me up rubberskin when is the next diary entry??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Today!

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru


    Anyway if I do get to the situation when they're round my front, I tend to get embarassed or confused and freeze up. Tend to avoid that situation nowadays. Maybe it's a confidence thing, I'm not sure.[/B][/QUOTE]


    sounds 2 me like it is a confidence thing buddy. I know it's easy 4 me 2 say, but u just need 2 chill out around the ladies. try 2 blag ur mates 2 go 2 sum different clubs, preferably where theres sum real smooth tunes being played, this is best 4 up close, tight grinding. and u dont have 2 be john travolta 2 look smooth. good luck pal. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hang on I thought I was meant to be buying them a drink, not taxing their handbags! Hmm that gives me a sneaky idea <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">!!!

    Anyway what about when a girl kind of starts backing into you then puts one of their hands behind their arse, palm facing towards you. I notice that a lot, but never know what to do then. If you grab their hips in that situation then you will be position your privates right where their hand is, which to me seems a bit provocative.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Back in the good old days all we had to do was smack them over the head with a big stick and drag them round to the cave! I just don't seem to be able to function in modern society.

    All evil needs to thrive is for good men to sit back and do nothing
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Marmite:
    Back in the good old days all we had to do was smack them over the head with a big stick and drag them round to the cave.

    Ah, the good old days!

    "Excellent!" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/Gif/burns.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Didn't the caveman bouncers bash you on the head if you tried to take a big wooden stick into a club??? No innuendos intended!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Captain Kirk:
    Ah, the good old days!

    *joins in with the reminiscing*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Actually, my mate Brev does something we've termed as the "Gallagher Grapple", it is a swaying leering dance performed with hands behind your back, you approach a victim and commence with the grinding. Women are helplessly overpowered, or too drunk, to fend off such an onslaught.

    Try it.

    "Excellent!" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/Gif/burns.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Where's the grapple involved? Anyway I used to do the no hands kind of 'grinding,' sometimes it got me very close to pulling, but it turned out I was too pissed those nights to actually pull. By pissed I mean extremely battered, nights where I do something stupid like leave my switch card behind a bar and get out a bar tab! Anyway there were a few times I did this and I wasn't too pissed, but I soon realised the unoriginality of doing this and again froze up. Oops!

    There's also a prime Welsh beef sandwich by the way where you and a mate can sandwich a girl and 'grind' together. Try that out some day.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RattleSnake:
    There's also a prime Welsh beef sandwich by the way where you and a mate can sandwich a girl and 'grind' together.

    *is confused*

    what the hell does this have to do with Welsh beef, prime or otherwise? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;

    Edited coz i live in Wales sum of the time and cant spell

    It was in the reign of George III that the aforesaid personages lived and quarrelled; good or bad, handsome or ugly, rich or poor, they are all equal now.

    From the Epilouge of Barry Lyndon by the late great Stanley Kubrick

    [This message has been edited by Baby Bio (edited 04-12-2001).]

    [This message has been edited by Baby Bio (edited 04-12-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    From the way I phrased it, maybe a dodgy kebab would sound more appropriate.

    Anyway, I don't understand the analogy, I just picked it up from some of my Welsh mates.

    Quite funny to watch though.
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