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Slight CRISIS!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Ok im in slight crisis at the moment bcoz this guy at my school called calvin has told EVRY1 that we r a couple i know this doesnt sound 2 bad BUT theres alot of affects this has had on me
1st:-i ended up avin a go at him & now i dnt think hes talkin 2 me bcoz of it!!

2nd:-iv got total strangers comin up 2 me chattin 2 me askin me if im wiv calvin etc

3rd:-there r other lads that r interested in me at the moment & they r gettin pissed off now people r spreadin these kind of rumours about me

finally i think i did fancy calvin but i just wish he had asked me out instead of just assumin we were a couple & wen i was gona talk 2 him 2 day he was wiv aload of his m8s which didnt really make me feel v.comfortable discussin our feelins around strangers.
Wot do u think?was i wrong in havin a go or wot?Wot do u think i shud do?HELP
Luv ya
Rach
xxxxx

If u have a good soul u can make sum1 happy!! If u can make sum1 happy ure a good person & a good friend!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this ain't OUR calvin is it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    hmm...two options i guess: be smart, and spread rumours about the size of his member. or kill him. wait, no, that's not a good idea <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    tricky. if ur feeling up to it, why not stage a massive public break up with him. start arguing with him and then just say "that's IT!! WE'RE FINISHED!" it'll humiliate adn confuse him. and he'll know for sure he ain't going out iwth u <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    first of all, quote shaggy: "it wasn't me." <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    second of all, you have every right to had a go with him. he was essentially lying about you. even if he honestly believed you guys to be a couple, he had no right to start sharing that without your consent.

    if he was a gentleman, he'd go about making things right by telling people he had made a mistake. his silence tells you volumes about his character.

    as for the total strangers... well, they like to gossip, so they will keep coming up to you. all you can do is set the record straight. this is also a way for you to get back a little bit. if you want to be nice, tell people that he was "mistaken." if you want to get him back, tell them he was flat out lying.

    as for the guys that fancy you, i think after you start telling people he was mistaken, they will come to you to seek out the truth, and you can tell them.

    finally, telling him in front of his mates might just be the thing that gets him to understand how badly you feel. and it would set the record straight. just be sure he isn't the vendictive type who would seek out revenge if you embarrass him like that.

    and remember, just keep telling other that you are not a couple. when they see you are never around him.. people will pretty much know ur the one telling the truth very quickly.

    good luck tigerlilly.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx 4 your advice guys <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    If u have a good soul u can make sum1 happy!! If u can make sum1 happy ure a good person & a good friend!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    True, I know this Calvin and he had no right telling everyone u were a couple before u'd discussed it just the two of you.

    I think hes pathetic and desperate u had every right 2 have a go at him and in my opinion u shud do it again until he gets it into his head he cant do things like that!!

    Keep ya chin up and stay positive bab, if the lads that like u r that serious they wont get angry ova rumours!!

    Keep smilin
    luv Sal
    xxxx
    xxxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi!
    u were right to have a go at him, but i understand its all cleared up now and u r a couple!!!
    YAY!!!!
    luv Nikki xx
    ps, keep smilin!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi yeah i know im mega happy now thanx 2 u sweet!!
    luv ya loads & wiv your thing heres my advice itll b alrite on the nite lol
    only jokin dont worry ull b fine
    We're both so happy its gr8!!
    HURRAY finally we're both happy!!
    luv ya Rach xx <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    If u have a good soul u can make sum1 happy!! If u can make sum1 happy ure a good person & a good friend!
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