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love bites....a turn off or turn on?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
What does everyone think about lovebites? Personally i really like them and its a major turn on for me. but i can understand why some people might find it a turn off.
Just want to know wot other people think about them.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Does this belong here or should it be on another board, Who Cares?

    Dont like them look ugly.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You may as well tattoo 'I'm a school child and I look a **** ' on your forehead.

    [ 18-05-2002: Message edited by: ebb ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fine if youre 13-14...otherwise its just a bit sad.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Only had one twice- the first time I was 14 and had been out clubbing with my best mate, we both pulled and da-da. The next day at school everyone thought we had given them to each other.

    The next time I didn't even realise my bf had done it and I had to wear a scarf to the dinner table. My Mum still saw it and gave me a lecture about being "easy". <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Eww I think they look awful! I've never had one & never want one!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't mind small love bites in easily hidden places. (stomach, boobs etc)They are a turn on for me. But big messy ones on your neck are not attractive in any way, shape or form. A big no-no for me i'm afraid. <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    They're cheap and nasty
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't like them. Might as well punch yourself in the face.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I FELL ON THE VACUUM CLEANER I TELL YOU!!!


    (joke)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My ex once gave me one on my neck, thing is he had a tounge piercing and for the next week it hurt like hell! I also had to wear a lovely range of roll neck jumpers and scarves in the middle of summer...general conscenus? not good.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There was a girl on the bus to alton towers who had like 4 love bites on a neck. People kept calling her a slut and no offence but they looked ugly
    It may be a sign of possesion but cant people not leave such an ugly mark????
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think thy look tacky, whta is the point in them?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tacky now, when i was younger i though they were cool but now i just think they are sad!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    eek!! they are 'orrible!!!! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    know as a 'slag tag' where i'm from! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Vile, vile vile. They hurt tooo. I had a huge one and well it was awlful!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    They can be slightly pleasurable at the time, but are just evil the morning after, big sore welts on your neck is never a good thing is it, and is most definately not romantic in any sense of the word.

    <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, generally they are thought of as pretty immature. Some parts of the body are REALLY sensitive to them, and they can happen really easily, by mistake. (ie the huge mark i had last week on my eyelid). My boyfriend got a beating for that one. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think they r o.k. It shows that u can pull.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think its cool the 1st few times wotever age-- but it definately starts just gettin annoying havin 2 wear a polo neck around ur parents!
    <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree that they are good when you are younger but now when i actually think about what they are i cringe
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by E.C = B:
    <STRONG>I think they r o.k. It shows that u can pull.</STRONG>

    what? shows u can pull a leech???

    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lovebites are NASTY! lol
    I've only ever had them twice, first time was when i was a lot younger and was only one small one so didn't look too bad.
    But one night jus b4 xmas i got totally pissed <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> & woke up the next mornin with no memory of the night b4 and huge lovebites all over my neck - UGHHH! <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> It did look awful! How my ma didn't figure it out i'll never know!
    i pure ate the head off the fella the next time i seen him! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    So basically i think they are EVIL! lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by E.C = B:
    <STRONG>I think they r o.k. It shows that u can pull.</STRONG>


    Why is it neccessary to broadcast the fact <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Love Bites are nasty and they certainly don't help when trying to convince parents that you are still sweet and innocent... and should be allowed the car.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yuk. That is all.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    apparently when i was little i had a habit of giving myself lovebites on my arms... looked like an abused child

    <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    oops.

    but yeah, they used to be cool. when i was about 13. my ex had a habit of trying to suck on my neck cause he thought it was funny to watch me cringe in embarrassment and try to hide them.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I tried to post this before, but the bloody computer refused to play <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    I live in the hope that the marks on my neck I occassionally receive from my wonderful boyfriend are simply a result of overenthusiasm rather than concerted attempts to give me lovebites - at 23 he really should know better. Then, I suppose the lovebite is one of these male territory marking exercises, an attempt to tell other blokes to fuck off. That doesn't stop it smacking heavily of immature 13 year old though. Hmmmph.

    And of course there's the irritation caused by becoming a prime candidate for piss taking at work. I remember one occasion when I was on the till, and one of my colleages blurts out very loudly, "Ooooh, is that a hicky you've got there?" <IMG SRC="redface.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Oh, the shame....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ickle_muppet:
    <STRONG>eek!! they are 'orrible!!!! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    know as a 'slag tag' where i'm from! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Is it really necessary, being Essex and all, to further highlight the fact?

    Yes, quite.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    love bites article

    Moving to relationships
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think they are o.k., if they are small, but if they are like massive on the neck it looks like a vampires tried to suck ya blood.
    luv lou
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