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how far would u go in a club?

BillieTheBotBillieTheBot Posts: 8,721 Bot
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ok im gettin in2 the whole pullin n clubin thing again(i spilt from my b/f <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; ) but im just wondering out of curiostity how far would you go?

i find it a bit embarrasin goin further than kissin but if u really like that person...........
a stroke of luck or a gift from god?the hand of fate or devils claws?from below or saints above?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    I dont know! Dont go jumping in to bed with just someone you've just met that would be wrong, swap numbers, get to know them! Or if you'd rather go for it, just go, but i know i regreted my 1nightstand, so i wouldnt risk it! Anyway have fun!
    Love Miss_K xxxxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok, the furthest ive gone in a club..
    snogging, and like running a hand up his side and back. well.. this is what i remember neway <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    if i knew what i was doing, i'd only go so far as snogging, and somewhere a bit secluded, if u can find it in a club <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    honey help me out of this mess..i'm a stranger to myself..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hiya,
    ive been fingered in a club, aslong as u do it discreatly then whos gonna know & whos gonna b bothered. ive seen peeps shaggin in clubs and i think- god i wanna do that, but then u just look like a cheap tart, so maybe not.
    H. xxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    furthest i've went in a club is snogging but i must say i was drunk and did let his hands wonder a bit. i regret it now but it was nice at the time
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by shazza:
    furthest i've went in a club is snogging but i must say i was drunk and did let his hands wonder a bit. i regret it now but it was nice at the time

    Dont feel so regretful-you enjoyed it and its a bit of a buzz aint it,you only live once!!!but dont do it again-learn from your mistakes

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok ok ok, i'm gonna try not to rant and just simply make my point:

    girls always seem to regret a helluva lot of hte stuff they do. why? i mean, u did it in the first place, so it couldna been THAT bad. if u were completely smashed, then, well, u should know better shouldn't u. like cheeky said, u only live once and learn quickly.
    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    ok ok ok, i'm gonna try not to rant and just simply make my point:

    girls always seem to regret a helluva lot of hte stuff they do. why? i mean, u did it in the first place, so it couldna been THAT bad. if u were completely smashed, then, well, u should know better shouldn't u. like cheeky said, u only live once and learn quickly.


    i think you're being a bit judgmental. you KNOW why what youre saying relates to me and how i feel about it. youve obviously never been drunk enough to not know what youre doing and only to realise afterwards what happened at all (if youre lucky) and then, and only then, do you actually put thought into it and realise it shouldnt have been done in the first place. if you're really that drunk and especially if the atmosphere is encouraging it, then you often DONT know better. alcohol's a drug, it has this effect. dont you start preaching to me about how i should know better and shouldnt drink then when something might happen, because thats like saying dont leave the front door in case you get run over by a car. and no i dont want to discuss the details of this on the board.

    but to answer the question, ive only snogged guys in clubs before.. one was very .. er... frisky, and tried to put his hands all over me and up my skirt and stuff, without even bothering to say hello or ask my name, he was on his way pretty quickly!!

    Burn baby burn!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    girls always seem to regret a helluva lot of hte stuff they do. why? i mean, u did it in the first place, so it couldna been THAT bad.

    This quote pretty much sums up my attitude towards that question:
    *It's better the regret the things you've done than the things you haven't*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    U lot may not agree with this but I cant stand it when I go to a club and have to watch a couple all over each other, it really pisses me off. I think that things like that should be for the two people involved and when I go out I dont wanna have to look at it!!! Sorry guys just stresses me out, am in a mood and this topic is getting the brunt of it!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've seen people shagging in clubs and it really puts you off.

    There you are just sat around, when you look to your side and two people are going at it. Not naked or anything, but you tell what their doing. It's dirty! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt;
    I am not Jesus, though I have the same initals.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    *It's better the regret the things you've done than the things you haven't*

    that used to be my signature <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    Burn baby burn!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The furthest i've gone in a club is snogging & that is prob the furthest i would go! One guy i met just after i split from my ex tried 2 finger me & shit when i'd known him like 5mins! I told him where 2 go!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've slept with two people in clubs, one in a toilet cubicle and the other in the seating area with her on top, except we got caught by a bouncer and thrown out...

    never mind...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    that used to be my signature

    Ah, that's where I got it from! Thank you Emma <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Justin Credible:
    I've slept with two people in clubs, one in a toilet cubicle and the other in the seating area with her on top, except we got caught by a bouncer and thrown out...

    never mind...

    You are such a randy one!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by CHEEKy:
    You are such a randy one!!!


    I'm not that bad, I just don't see sex as this amazingly important thing, I see it as a normal way of showing your love, sure it can be special and that but its just human nature...

    Cubical sex is crap anyway cause your clothes get wet from crap on the floor...
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Justin Credible:

    Cubical sex is crap anyway cause your clothes get wet from crap on the floor...

    keep your clothes on/hang them up on the hook on the back of the door!/stand up?


    Burn baby burn!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I went to a shite club and saw a girl giving a lad a BJ on the dance floor.
    It was fing disgusting

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    keep your clothes on/hang them up on the hook on the back of the door!/stand up?

    u sound experienced.

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mostly i would just go to the snogging stage. a few times i was a bit drunk and i let the guy fingered me on the couch. not in the middle of a dancefloor. but a couple times, i had went further than that. not sex. this was outside the club and we were pretty well hid so it wasn't out publicly.

    i know a girl that would go all the way in a club publicly. yuck! talk about having some respect for the rest of us. one time, fuck, i seen this girl and this guy at it having sex on the middle of the dancefloor!! talk about gross, the guy was on top - don't think u like me to go into details here. i nearly spilt my drink over them. no one can blame me, they shouldn't be doing it there anyway. if they suddenly got all horny, get into the toilets or something. wouldn't kill them to wait a few mins! but not on the dancefloor!

    my friend at the time actually told me he got really turned on watching them...

    children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    keep your clothes on/hang them up on the hook on the back of the door!/stand up?

    u sound experienced.


    lol no im not, honest!`


    Burn baby burn!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I've snogged a few guys in a nightclub, but I'd not sleep with them one a one night stand. I think I'm pretty old fashioned when it comes to pulling, I go to nightclubs for the music & I get sleazy old men tryin to chat me up...yuk <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    keep your clothes on/hang them up on the hook on the back of the door!/stand up?

    I was stood up, my combats and pants where round my ankles and as for hooking them up on the back of the door I suppose that could work in a swimming baths.. hmmmmm, now theres a place...

    *Phones a few good friends to arrange stuff... lol*

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've never had a one nite stand resulting from pulling a gut in a club. But a few years ago i was at a collage party with my then boyfriend, and he was having a conversation with his mate, i was stood in front of him with my hand behind me wanking him off. It was quite funny coz all he could say to his mate was "Yeah" while trying to keep a straight face and no one knew what was going on. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wow thanks for ur storys n points of view! sum of ya storys r good <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    <font color=hotpink>whoah cant imagine cant imagine it in a cubicale - not the clothes bit but did the toilette not ged in the way??
    a stroke of luck or a gift from god?the hand of fate or devils claws?from below or saints above?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In a club the furthest I have gone was to let a girl suck me off in a darkened area, it was just one of them things really. Ive shagged outside a club, in the local carpark against a mondea and ended up setting off the fucking alarm...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    foam parties...dont you love them!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    pyrex

    ps i'm talking about ones abroad.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    justin do u have a yahoo id?
    a stroke of luck or a gift from god?the hand of fate or devils claws?from below or saints above?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    This quote pretty much sums up my attitude towards that question:
    *It's better the regret the things you've done than the things you haven't*

    Agree totally mate. You may regret doing something. But I`d certainly rather regret doing something than not doing it when I really wanted to.
    "Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    that be my little advice thingy that wildchild's quoting! and im too tired to scroll up and see if ive already said that.

    but oh dear lord. talyn hasnt seen either the "fudge" topic, the various other topics scattered about the place either, from the looks if it. unless he just finds it hard to tell the date.

    someone else do it, im getting a reputation <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
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