What should i do?

Former Member

i went with my mates bf a couple of nights ago but i was out of my face and i could hardly remember!She has fallen out with me and so has the reat of my freinds what should i do?
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Former Member

'went with'? As in how far? Was he off his face too?

Former Member

yes he was off his face too and we were too drunk to realise what we were doing at the time.I snogged him i dint do ne thing else.

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Sex is evil,
Evil is sin,
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So lets get stuck in!

Former Member

its a manchester slang-went with as in snogged.
advice-its expected,sorry but you are just gonna have to make a big effort to show just how sorry you are and speak to the boy about it and get your friend and talk as a three and say nothing is going on-it was just a silly mistake. but dont expect the two of you to be as close as you use to be.

Former Member

<IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt; well personally (no offense) but if one of my m8s did that to me, i would never be able to forgive them i dont think. Sorry i know thats not what you want to hear.

I think you should apologise over and over and explain that there was nothing in it etc.

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Former Member

I kissed my mate's b/f once and I wasn't even drunk <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; I totally regret and hate myself for it. Even though she's forgiven me now (it was about 2 1/2 years ago) I've never forgiven myself.

At first she was really mad - at us both. All you can really do is give it time - let her know how sorry you are but don't suck up to her, just accept what she says. You did wrong, you know it, you can't expect everything to be instantly forgiven and forgotten. But keep quiet for a while, don't flare up if she has a go at you and don't expect anything from her.

My friend eventually forgave me - I don't know why, probably because she's a better person than me - but we were never best friends again. She still hates the boyfriend - now her ex. If this girl is a true friend she'll recognise that there were two people there and, especially since you were drunk, should forgive you in time.

Girl-From-Mars

right ive been in a similar situation once before. well it was my friend's ex bf, but there was still stuff going on with them sorta thing, but my friend was back with her OTHER ex bf she was with a long time, and the guy who i got off with was a friend of us both. anyway it was a BIG mistake, he didnt fancy me, i didnt fancy him, we were off our faces and cant even remember most of it, and ended up both of us crying after it! but my friend forgave me coz she knows that theres nothing between me and the other guy... and she had a bf anyway!

so i think you really have to somehow make your m8 believe that you didnt know what was going on.. i totally didnt think you could use alcohol for an excuse like that, until it happened to me and it didnt even cross my mind to stop doing it, i wasnt thinking anything about it like if it was enjoyable or good or bad or what, it was just something to do at the time which sounds so awful! but you have to make her realise how sorry you are, and how its never gonna happen again and how you dont fancy her bf.

i hope you can sort it out <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; (((((((sexylaydee))))))))

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