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Girlfriend Wants Sex

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I Started goin wit this lass from my school last satarday, and shes in my year. Im one of the oldest and shes one of the youngest. im 14 btw.

And shes bin sendin me all these txts seyin she wants to shag me on sataday.So shes invited me to her house on sataday while her parents r away 4 da weekend. The only problem is she aint a virgin and i am, i think she knows and i dont know if im ready for it?!? I bin going out wit her for like a week(2 weeks next weekend) and i dunno if its to soon.Also if i do agree to it then her ex was a year 11(im year 9 2 years younger!) and im afraid also shed b expecting sumthing more dwnstairs then there is! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> What do u think i should do? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

I Might Just See How it goes this week! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds like shes a slut to me, do what you wana do at the time, cos you wont win, you'll either be seen as a crap shag, or gay cos you dont wana shag. Least i could imagine that coming from a 14 year old whos gagging for it. Id say just leave her and not do it and not worry about it. They aint worth it in the end.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Let her know you are still a virgin and take it from there.

    If you don't want to do it tell her you want to wait a while for it to be perfect. If she dumps you then you know she is just a slut.

    I would usually say 14 is too young but when you are both the same age it does not seem so bad. Remember it is illegal. If you fall out she shout rape.

    OH AND ALWAYS WEAR A RUBBER <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well She isnt a slut, but she isnt exactly an angel. If She trys to call rape, then whos gonna proove it? her word against mine!

    If she was a slut wud she put 50 quid on her fone n then blow it by ringing me wen im on a different network during the day peak time?

    But my best m8 was goin out wit her best m8 b4 we started goin owt, do u tink she asked me bcoz of her best m8 seyin it wud b fun for her bfs best m8 n her best m8 to go owt?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm two users posting about the same girl, and id say a 14 year old whos not a virgin is a slut, unless they have been and are in a mega long relationship, but she sounds like she wants sex off of any Tom, dick or harry <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Sorry, oh and the end of you post makes no sense, to me at least.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh and yes, sluts can still put money on their mobiles and spend it, theirs no rule against them doing that, ive had girls spend a lot of money on me before, even though they only wanted to use me and get something from me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angelbabe:
    <STRONG>Well She isnt a slut, but she isnt exactly an angel. If She trys to call rape, then whos gonna proove it? her word against mine!

    If she was a slut wud she put 50 quid on her fone n then blow it by ringing me wen im on a different network during the day peak time?

    But my best m8 was goin out wit her best m8 b4 we started goin owt, do u tink she asked me bcoz of her best m8 seyin it wud b fun for her bfs best m8 n her best m8 to go owt?</STRONG>

    what the fuck? i never wrote that im female, certainly dont wanna sleep wiv ne girls thankyou very much!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dunno y ive only jus joined up on this thing, and its goin all queer??? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> oh well, i may as well get sumit out of it! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And now your quoting yourself, replying to yourself? im lost. Nite
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ahhhhhh it used ma name that time!!! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rachael what are you doing! i was so confused! do you know anyone apart from me who could have your password?!?!? send an email to the mods! Priv8 Mess me we can talk on there!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    freaked out! i wasnt even logged in when that was sent cos me mum was on the phone! dunno whats happening but its done it before the other day as well. its always when a new user writes something, it comes up with my name! freaky <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Change ure username then
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Change ure username then
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Like A Dream:
    <STRONG>i dunno y ive only jus joined up on this thing, and its goin all queer??? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> oh well, i may as well get sumit out of it! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Why have you posted under angelbabes name do you know her password if so you should say so if you really do not know what is going on speak to the mods they will have a better idea of what is happening. but back to what you wrote

    Yes they can proove rape it is her word against yours. they can do medical testing etc. if you were found lying you will be in trouble she may have consented but you should know better and you should realise the law and how you are responsible. im just saying how it is.
    but if you know better then you know better why ask for advise?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Like A Dream:
    <STRONG>Change ure username then</STRONG>

    That wont work talk to the mods they know best!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    like i said i ave only joined up on this thing like a matta of minutes mayb an hour ago, the only reason i know how to work them is coz im part off www.happyhardcore.com which is a forum thing for a genre of music (hardcore/rave/techno/happy hardcore)

    so i dont even know how to tell the "mods"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Anyway she even ses that its happened b4 so er how cum ur blaming me! u her man or sumit!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no shes me best mate!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im lost <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    both of them are bloody stupid...

    don't do it, you're too young.

    and lose the f**king text speak.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *DEVIL*:
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    Why have you posted under angelbabes name do you know her password if so you should say so if you really do not know what is going on speak to the mods they will have a better idea of what is happening. but back to what you wrote

    Yes they can proove rape it is her word against yours. they can do medical testing etc. if you were found lying you will be in trouble she may have consented but you should know better and you should realise the law and how you are responsible. im just saying how it is.
    but if you know better then you know better why ask for advise?

    <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Devil, sweetheart, you can't prove rape by medical testing. All you can prove is that the act of intercourse occurred. There are classic rape defensive bruises, but these are by forcible rape, not in circumstance where rape has been "called"

    You're all mad.

    14 is too young. You don't know what you're doing, and rushing in to it for all the wrong reasons.

    Sort your lives out with the posting as well; it's confusing, and text talk doesn't help.
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