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A guy who is going out with me for a bet

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I was going out with a bloke for months ,basically it was going really well, i was getting treated better than i've been used to in the past, then he told me yesterday that he had made a bet with some mates back in September that he would get to shag me, and that had been the reason he started going out with me,to try win the bet. Then he apologised and said that he wouldn't still be here if he didn't care about me and he cares about me so much, blah blah blah, that he would have left as soon as he did/didn't get his way and wouldn't have wasted his time hanging around if he didn't think there was something there. And the only reason he's still with me is that he doesn't want to lose me etc etc etc. Now i personally don't think that he realises how much he's pissed me off by telling me this, i haven't told him how i feel i just left and now he's acting like nothing has happened. I'm avoiding him like mad. He isn't stupid either, i just don't know what to do at all, is it worth talking it through or will i just tell everyone, have a good laugh and then dump him in the most evil, painful way possible? Ideas please!!!!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I gave out this advice that seems to be very successful!!! You can ask Punkinlondon if you dont believe me!!!

    Basically, wrestle you dick head of a boyfriend to the ground and then fart in his eye!!!!

    Then dump him, knowing deep down that he had the most humiliating thing anyone can ever had done to them!!!!!

    Muwhahahahahahahahahhaha, brill idea me thinks!!

    hopes punkinlondon never reads this post

    <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    (edited:cos my grammer sucks ass)

    [ 23-04-2002: Message edited by: wuckFit ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dump him, but first use him like he used you.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    let him beg for a week or two just to see what his true feelings are for you. plus he did tell you when he didn't have to just take time and think about it for a while
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just because his reason for starting the relationship was wrong it doeswn't mean that it is not worth doing now. He has made the point that he wants to be with you, do you not enjoy your relationship?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Will refer to you Ex boyfriend(or soon to be eh!!) as the dickhead

    Dump the dick head and get with a nice guy like me!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Naa ask the dickhead why he told you now?

    you 19, so did the dickhead win the bet?

    this kind of crap can make you not want to date again eh? i would not talk to him again, let your last words be something like

    "i hope you know you have lost something great,and no we can't be friends and please don't talk to me again...plus you got a small dick!!"

    let your words hit home hard!! make him know he has lost you for good

    i dare say you still like this guy...sorry the dickhead! but you need to get him out of your life someone that go out with you for a bet is a wanker and will only hurt you more

    or if you must hurt him, kick him the balls really hard?? that may make you feel better

    i hope all works out for you

    good luck!!
    Originally posted by wuckFit:
    <STRONG>
    Basically, wrestle you dick head of a boyfriend to the ground and then fart in his eye!!!!
    </STRONG>

    That is really good!!
    do that to him(sorry dickhead)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He wouldnt have told you if he had no respect for you.

    And, he would have dumped you straight away as soon as he had won the bet if he didnt like you...

    Times change...I would just continue as usual...assuming you can forgive him.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Shag him and split the winnings from the bet.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wuckFit:
    <STRONG>hopes punkinlondon never reads this post</STRONG>

    Ahhh, you're out of luck there son. Ignore wuckfit, his advice is ummmmm... less than helpful sometimes.
    While i can understand that you're unhappy with the situation in which you got together, i do think you should give him a chance, the boy does have a point in what he said. I think you should talk to him about it, let him know how unhappy you are, but ultimately do what feels best for you.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Posted by punkinlondon:

    Ignore wuckfit, his advice is ummmmm... less than helpful sometimes.

    Am sure your ex would disagree with you there!! Kiddin <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Go with what the BORING ones are saying, dont have some fun, dont get your own back, dont get the satisfaction of showing him whos boss just dont do anything fun!!

    Then when you do that he will know that your a push over and that he can do everything and anything that he wants to and as he got away with this the first time, when will it stop, how long till the next time when he puts a bet on with his mates??????

    GOD DAMMIT.....just do the right thing and fart in his eye!!!!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wuckFit:
    <STRONG>Am sure your ex would disagree with you there!! Kiddin <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> </STRONG>

    Ah, yes... my ex. who i'm kinda back together with... <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No, No, No. He's decided to be honest about things and all you lot want to do is punish him and call him names!! Whats that all about.

    if all he was worried about was the bet then he would never of said anything. He probable had that on his mind for a while and wanted to clear the air.
    I think he should be respected for being honest.

    If you react badly to him telling you the truth this time, he probably won't ever be honest with a woman again.(Us men are only what you women make us!)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thank's for your advice everyone. In the meantime I got wasted and brought the subject up, then again last night while not wasted, so i could remember what he said this time. I think he's in the grovelling stage now because he sent me flowers and choc's after i told him that i very nearly had him assasinated. He said he was sorry and the rest of it, and it was before he knew what sort of *lovely* person i am etc (incedentally i'm not!). Blah. It will never be to late to have him assasinated though.....and fart in his face which i am planning to do, in public while he's at work.

    thank you all xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i reckon, u use him in some sort of way like he used you
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Imagine how he must feel then eh? He went out with you, grew to like you, took great care of you and then ultimately trusted you...and you repay him by farting in his face?

    Now, call me old fashioned, but surely it would be better to forgive him, admire him for being honest, and thank god that something this silly hooked you up with what is obviously a great guy, no?

    Use your head girl, he might've done something immature in the past, but for gods sake, think about what you're going to lose before you start farting in his eye, ok?

    And don't come crawling back here when you realise how much you miss him.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Has anyone else here seen the movie "She's All That"? This is almost the exact plot... anyways, good movie and the guy eventually convinces the girl that he really has fallen in love with her and they live happily ever after or something like that.
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