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can today get worse???

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey everyone, heres my first problem that doesnt actually have anything to do with Lucy!!!

During first lesson today all my m8s ganged up on me - they started stealing my stuff and defacing things etc.

I was depressed before i went into the lesson (see my previous post as to why i was), but this had made things worse coz they thought it was funny.

Im starting to wonder exactly how many true friends i have, if those i consider friends do this to me.

Im seriously depressed now <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Dai

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd say the world could end, but by the sounds of things, that would just serve to put you out of your misery.

    Friends can be fickle, especially guys, but most of the time it's well meaning, just a bit of a laugh. It's all well and good me saying "if you can't take it you'll find it hard to get through life", but I know for a fact that it's not easy at times, especially when you're not in the mood.

    You just got to train yourself to laugh it off, they are your friends, and when you need them they'll be there for you.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh huni,
    i really do feel for you. i know exactly how u feel, i used to go thru it when i was in school, but my SO CALLED friends used to gang up on me too cos they knew i couldnt stand up for myself.
    I disagree with you there Turtle. These are not friends at all!!! True friends wouldnt do that at all!! No WAY!
    I think u should make new friends that will help you get tru this.
    I hope everything turns out ok babe
    Speak soon
    Jade
    xxxxx <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hehehe, i used to do that kind of stuff....it always happen to one guy in the group......Maybe you just that guy in your group who every one can just make fun out of

    sorry to say it happens at school and there is not much you can do to stop it,...unless you find new friends??

    or just learn to take it and GIVE it back!!!

    i've got nothing else to say on this subject sorry!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    first of all mate if this is a regular occurance, and u ave had it out wit dem b4, they are not 'friends', this sounds more like that thing..erm..oh yeah..BULLYING!..tell em to stop,and if they dont,go off in a huff,and speak to sum u know,but not as well, they'll soon see there mistake when u ignore them,also, if they are bulying u, and it has happend to me, move,it sounds hard,but i had who i thought were friends,but were muppets,so i went off and found new friends,who were a proper laugh,and we still speak and this was years ago,get out now!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know its bullying, thats why i get SO pissed off. Since i left my primary schol 5 years ago i have been bullied by people.

    That persuaded me to join the new school bullying council. 17 Year 11s and 6th formers spend a few days being trained as bullying counsellors (sp?), and we've now been attached to Year 7 forms.

    The general idea is that if anyone in our form has trouble with bullying, they come to us to talk about it!!

    anyway, coz i know its bullying, it pisses me off even more! coz im supposed to be able to deal with it!!!

    Dai
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
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    Friends can be fickle
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    Don't get me started on friends! Lol. When I went into sixth form in September I thought it would be great; all the people who made school crap had left and I would make new friends. At the start it was great, I had met new people and we all became really close friends. But to cut a long story short, things have happened that have now made me realise I can't even trust my own friends. Don't you think it's coming to something when I feel that way about them?

    I do have a lot of other friends, but I thought the others were special, but now I just feel that I'm better off without them.

    Anyway enough of my rambling, but I would say that friends don't do that kinda thing to you so think about how you actually feel about them.

    Good luck <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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