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What should i do with my druged up b/f
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Im starting to regret ever meeting this boy! Couple months ago he started smoking dope,ok that was fine with me but now hes started takin speed, pills, lsd and i dont no what to to do hes always in a bad mood coz of his comedowns. I don wanna say the wrong things just incase we finish over it! What can i do some one please help!:rolleyes:
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it's extremely difficult for a non drug user to enjoy life with a user. if you stay with him you'll end up using.
it might be time to move on ...before the regrets get any bigger ...
And Mr. Roll, I know what you mean it really is difficult to make a relationship work with a user and a non-user because the two views will no doubt be so completely different. However, if you care enough about someone and want to make it last you'll have to come to an ultimatum, or at least keep up both but be sneaky about it.
I met my ex's parents for the first time the day after taking two tabs of acid the night before. :crazyeyes
Yeh but i have a smoke with him n his mates too. I don care about the cannabis its the rest
i used to see this guy who did all that and his world was completley different to mine. it kinda took over his life and he went all depressed because of his bad comedowns from getting fucked every weekend.
unfortunatley you can't change what your boyfriend does. you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and if he won't either cut down or stop then it's best for you to move on.
it might just be a phase for him like it was for the guy i was with. he stopped everything last november and is great now so we might be getting it back on soon
My mates have been together since forever, and they both smoke. He started taking pills and bass. y'know first now and again then 3-4 times a week, like 10 in one session + coke and bass. She wanted him, pleaded with him to stop so many times (she had siad to me on so many occasions that he reminded her of what i myself used to be like when i was 16-17 and it was scarey for her).
She stayed with him thru all of that and i thought they'd have broken up way before now. Buts he's sorted himself out and they are still really happy together.
I havent got a clue how this is going to help but i guess im implying that it COULD be just a phase, and that he will stop experimenting eventually.
Its up 2 u and you have to do what you feel is right (and i would really be aware of what Mr.rolly said earlier because equally that can happen too).
I seriously hope you two can sort this out though
Take care;)
So, your options are as I see them;
A) Decide that the relationship isnt going anywhere and leave.
Talk to him about your concerns and ask him how he feels about it, then leave/stay depending on result.
C) Ask him to cut down and if he doesnt, leave.
Or D) Stay with him.