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Boyz as Friends

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

I have lots of friends BUT i like hanging about with boyz more!! I don't know why! They don't mind they think it's cool havin a girl with them! So i hang about with them, stay over and stuff!! BUT.. i know people say i'm a tart! But whats so bad! The guyz say ignore them they're jelous! But what off? That i get on with boyz better then girls! I don't look at guys in that sort of way! Is this so bad???


  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't worry 'bout it mate. Serious. I've had mainly guy friends my whole life. My best friend is a guy who I've been friends with for 10 years now. Serious. Its only in the last couple of years that I've been able to be close friends with girls. Don't worry 'bout it. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think thats fine, if not gr8. i had/have loads of mates as boys, they r gr8 fun and better than girl mates in lots of ways, they br out 4 a laugh, and not necessarily on the pull. dont get me wrong i have loasd a girl mates 2 but guys r wicked.
    its kinda strange that im close 2 lads as i went 2 an all girls secondary school!
    some girls r bitch as im mates with lads but they r jealous, they accuse me of flirting but tis justt innocent fun, they r 2 busy putting on makeup and workin out which 1 they wanna shag next!
    dont worry
    love helly
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree, partly because boys aren't bitchy like girls can be and lets face it, they can be such a laugh.
    On the other hand, what about discussing your problems? can you talk openly to guys about anything?
    There are some lovely guys out there, but I feel more comfortable confiding in one of my female friends for some topics.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As a guy I have lots of girls that are great friends. I prefer talking to girls about my problems, and I know a lot of girls prefer talking to me about theirs.

  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    I have a lot of male friends.. hen i was 14 i had a lot of probs with girl m8s and became friends with this group of lads and they did mroe stuff out of shcool with me than the girls ever did. we kind of drifted aprt though.. but it was a lot of fun (stricly in a platonic way, tho i did fancy one of them and one fancied me! i got off with him a party for a dare.. wish i hadnt though <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; )but ive had a lot of male friends on the net for ages... like for 1 or 2 or more years, and i always tlak to them with my problems as they arent bitchy and they often have something good to say that isnt judgemental, i love having guys as best friends. im going out with one of the net ones now! hae been for 15 months, started off as best friends on the net then met a few times... and things changed!! but i believe you can have guys as friends, without sex becoming involved. arent necessarily linked. and girls are waaaay too bitchy on the whole.
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