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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
<IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> I need your advice, please help.
Me and my bf have been 2gether for 2 years and 5 months. I love him to bits but i think he is going off me. it sounds stupid but he never seems to want to see me anymore and when he does all he wants is sex. dont get me wrong i like sex but not all the time. I couldnt imagine my life without him, he means so much to me, i dont want to lose him. Am i just being stupid or does it sound like its the end?


  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's a long time to be together, especially at this age. Ask him what's going on. If he can't give you a decent reply then maybe it's reached the end of the road between you. But you're the one who knows him - does he have 'distant' moments?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This happened to me... and strangely enough at about the same time as you. It's possibly the worst situation to be in because you know something is wrong and either have the option to ignore it and hope things will change, which when you're feeling rejected like this is near impossible or tell you boyf. The danger here is that he might just think you're nagging him, or going on about it and make the problem worse. You're pretty powerless as not wanting to come across needy etc. I know you feel like you couldn't live if you and your boyf finished but from personal experience i know its possible. My boyf eventually finished it leaving me feeling completely alone and rejected. It has taken me a long time to get over it and enjoy being single and the only problem now is i actually miss being single in my current relationship. The trick is not to let it carry on and on, decide when enough is enough and get out before he drives you into the ground. Of course it may be just a bad patch. I know plenty of friends this has happened to and if so i'm afraid men aren't that complicated.... sexy underwear, subtly inducing jealousy... basically making him realsie what he's got. Refuse to see him for a while, play him at his own game, make him realise what he's missing.

    Well good luck miss, hope it turns out okay x
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