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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
This msg probably should be in the anything goes section! Does anyone else have this knack for falling for the wrong men? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Its the type where they KNOW that they are, lets say "God's gift" and attract all the women, which I can accept i.e when in a public place and get a lot of attention. But WHY are they ALL so arrogant with it by ppl playing around! and let ppl like me get hurt, or am I the only 1 *just unlucky*?

Its the lying b4 hand when they act all nice and innocent, tellin you that they are not that type of person in playin u around <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Until u catch them.

I have more respect 4 those that say that up front in saying they dont want to commit in a steady relationship and play!

Heres what I call them 'Georgy Porgies' lol *sighs* <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Now thats out in the open I can smile again! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    erm......
    im pretty stoned right now....
    .....
    no comment
    i havent a clue what you r talking about..
    sorry
    ...
    jade
    xxxx
    da pot head
    lol
    only jk
    xxx <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nah man

    I'm a nice guy, and I don't cheat, and I'm not ugly! lol

    Or fat! (well not much!!)

    You'll find someone right in the end <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    A good bit of advice might be to ask as many people you know about what a guy is like etc from people you trust then maybe you'll know if they're a "player" or not.

    Cheers,
    Phil <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    erm......
    im pretty stoned right now....
    .....
    no comment
    i havent a clue what you r talking about..
    sorry

    Sorry about that it's my fault for getting her stoned at work, please ignore it! lol

    Phil <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> (Please note the shades hiding my eyes, I am doing this right now.. <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry girl but its you that make these men act the way they do... they know they can pull silly little school girls anytime they like....they moody because they know that can be

    its you girl that make these types of blokes, and while you girls are chasing these types of boys, the nice guys ani't getting alooking

    it sickens me to the core, but hay its life i'll get over it....

    anyway its like why do men lie to woman?? look at it like this, why does a dog lick its own balls?? because it CAN!!

    men lie to woman because some times it easyer to lie to you then get the nagging!!

    but i don't lie to woman that much!! really i don't <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ah ha Harmless, i knew id break you. Now you see it from my point of view

    *punches the air in ecstasy about changing a man to her way of thinking*

    nice girls want nice guys
    nice guys want skanky hoes

    fantastic <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ha ha, i'm laughing here Leese, You may have change my way of thinking alittle

    but i'm a nice bloke and i don't go for
    nice guys want skanky hoes

    i want a nice girl!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hang on a min, nice girls want the ""Bad Boy"" who they know will treat them like shit when his infront of his mates and lie to them to get them in the sack!!

    and then they will be on here moaning about it, its girl that make this boy act the way they do

    sometime i think i'm in a world of my own,but that would just be wishing!!

    ahhh i hate love!! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    then if you think about it, they're not really nice girls because in theory nice girls should like nice people so that they can have nice relationships and nice children.

    Bit waffly but get what i mean? <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well i can't answer that, but come on nice girls like alittle bit of bad

    its what makes the world go round. you can't help but laugh when a girls go's out with a "bad boy" she must know he will hurt her one way of the other, but still its mostly little school girl that go for the "bad boy" type

    so leese you not said what type you go for? the good or the bad

    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am smiling to myself thinking of what your answer will be. anyway i think i've answered the post.

    its so nice out side why am i in this hell(office) its not fair!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry to interupt, but I think nice people don't exist and were invented by commercial industry so that we all fail at attaining an impossible goal and then spend loads of money to compensate for how shit we consequenty feel. <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good, but you must consider that there are different levels of good, ie you dont want goodie good cause they'd never wanna lay you because they want to keep you innocnet.

    Dont get the appeal with bad guys at all, dont wanna be bonnie to anyone's clyde!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i can see why a nice young girl would want a bad boy. yes as a nice boy i do want a girl that i can sleep with but sex isn't everything to me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "sex isn't everything to me"

    now i've heard everything! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am a nice boy, but i've done a few bad things in my past, not saying what because they really are bad(from a girl point of view)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok tell me some bad things you've done, im intrigued!

    *starts wondering whether he is a 'nice guy'*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hahaha, no i'm a nice guy i am, but its only one really bad thing i did, and a girl would never understand it

    i done it 4 times and each times has been crap!!

    all i will say is that its highly over rated
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its not drugs, and i don't smoke....i really can't say it....its far to bad to say

    its not who i am now
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it didnt involve small animals i hope, in that case i cant imagine itd been all that bad.

    did u mean ud only done it 4 times ever?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    haha no animals =, and yes done it 4 time, 2 time when i was 16, 1's when i was 17 and 1's now i'm 18

    that all i'm saying, and yes its bad from a girl view...trust me

    but its something that i've done and got to live with
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its not rape is it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no no no and no its not rape, look at it like this, blokes down the pub would say well done for it, but woman would err lets just say its not the sort of thing you would tell a girl you did

    i could so easy give it away but if i do every body may not understand

    i only did it because i was over there and all my mate were doing it and i just got caught in the flow

    i'm not the 1st bloke to do it and i wont be the last. can't give any more away otherwise people may get it!

    i guess i'm not ashamed of it. but still its not the kind of thing you shout of the roof tops

    [ 19-04-2002: Message edited by: Harmless ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless:
    <STRONG>Sorry girl but its you that make these men act the way they do... they know they can pull silly little school girls anytime they like....they moody because they know that can be

    its you girl that make these types of blokes, and while you girls are chasing these types of boys, the nice guys ani't getting alooking

    it sickens me to the core, but hay its life i'll get over it....

    anyway its like why do men lie to woman?? look at it like this, why does a dog lick its own balls?? because it CAN!!

    men lie to woman because some times it easyer to lie to you then get the nagging!!

    but i don't lie to woman that much!! really i don't <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Thanx for callin me a school girl.Much a appreciated. Thanx 4 saying that Ima 'nice girl' wanting a "Bad Boy". that I bascially get what I deserve!

    Thank you <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    From Imagine the 'Nice Girl' who is currently a little undergraduate of a school girl asking for everything get I coz I purposefully go out looking for a Bad Boy! U make my Ex b/f look like a Saint!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LOL I'd guess Harmless is talking about anal sex, but maybe I'm wrong.
    Anyway, there are nice guys out there, you girs just need to realise that the majority of nice guys will not be the best-looking since really good-looking guys can afford to be wankers cos their looks will always get them laid!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Okay Imagine i am sorry, my post was to high light why these boys do what they do, and it is because school girls let them, i stand by what i said

    but maybe you do hold half of the blame, if you do go for the loud show off type of boy you can't wonder why he is a dickhead and hurts you

    the star that shines the brightest isn't alway the best, but i was wrong to have a go at you, and i am sorry

    you are young and you go for what you see thats fair enough, i just hope when you get older you wont still go for the type of bloke that will hurt you.

    And Rich nope it was not anal sex, but what Rich said was right i think
    there are nice guys out there, you girs just need to realise that the majority of nice guys will not be the best-looking since really good-looking guys can afford to be wankers cos their looks will always get them laid!

    once again Imagine i am sorry

    P.S
    U make my Ex b/f look like a Saint!

    i doubt that very much <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    okay harmless,i think that what your secret is is that you and your mates all had a "crack" at this one girl at the same time ala Geri from Hollyoaks! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    hint: nice guys dont "do" prostitutes in Amsterdam
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    err, my secret is that err damm i wish i could lie, it make my life so much simple

    leese lets me just save face and say i'm not a nice guy then

    Ilson-Youth i hope you enjoy your trip to holland, i've heard its very good over there(wink wink) <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    But watch out for the black drug dealers, what ever you do don't follow them anyway!!, apart form that Amsterdam is a cool place to relax, hope you enjoy it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ughh, thats not very nice!

    oh well we're all entitled to our mistakes i suppose, god knows im not perfect.

    you're right though itd put off potential girlfs if they knew.

    ah well............. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well it didn't put off my last girlfriend , but yes it didn't go down to well, but she made me tell her, i think what people do in there past should stay there

    as long as doesn't hurt anybody!

    and i'm not happy about what i did, but its my mastake and i got to live with it.
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