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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I am so confused about males. They are everything but what I expect them to be. I feel like my standards are high. I feel like I am to hard on most of them. what should I do? I am very upset about my past relationships and they're certainly not what I would like to repeat. but how do you pick a guy that most likely won't hurt you. I am no longer going to guy friends for that one. ne advice? PLEASE!!! I sware I can't stand being single...but I can't stand being miserable
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Spongebobchick1:
    <STRONG>I am so confused about males. They are everything but what I expect them to be. I feel like my standards are high. I feel like I am to hard on most of them. what should I do? I am very upset about my past relationships and they're certainly not what I would like to repeat. but how do you pick a guy that most likely won't hurt you. I am no longer going to guy friends for that one. ne advice? PLEASE!!! I sware I can't stand being single...but I can't stand being miserable
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    it depends where you're from and what kind of guys you attract or feel are good enough for you?
    I think the best way to meet people is through friends, let them recommend people they know. Least that way you know the guy you may end up with is a decent sort of person (thats if you trust your friends!).
    There are lots of decent men out there, myself included. All you have to do is learn to recognise us, most likely there is one right in front of you but you have never realised!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:
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    All you have to do is learn to recognise us, most likely there is one right in front of you but you have never realised!</STRONG>

    I like that quote <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Who do you want to be in a relationship with?

    1. A Jack-the-lad who stands out in a crowd and is very popular but is likely to betray you; or

    2. Someone who doesn't stand out so much in a crowd and isn't so popular but who isn't likely to deceive you and is kind, caring and loving?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When you're in a relationship with someone you're always risking hurt <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> The way guys act around their girlfriends and towards other people can be completely different, and so Mr.Nice Guy can often behave like a real tosser towards you. Equally you get the rough and ready lads who can be really sweet. I suppose you just have to take them as they come ( <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">)

    But personally I think being lonely and alone is preferable to being miserable and attached. Right? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    instead of going out with them straight away try being mates with them for a while first.at least then you get to know them a bit more and get to know what there really like.if he seems like your type then go for it but if not then you know your not going to get hurt
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