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HHHEEEELLLLLPPPPP!!! (again!)

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi everyone, time for my latest problem!

OK... now, the girl im helping - the one who was sexually abused and alomst raped. Her parents have banned her from talking to me on the net, because they dont trust me and think i mite be a pedophile (that how you spell it??).

Other than the net she could also talk to by via txt messaging but shes run out of credit and her parents wont give her another topup until she finishes her SATs.

The only other place i can talk to her now is at school when shes surrounded by all her friends, and she doesnt want that.

Im starting to wonder if someone has something against me helping her <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Can you give me any advice?

Dai

[ 18-04-2002: Message edited by: dai fychan ]

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why don't she want you talking to her infront of her mates??

    need a few more details mate
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't know the story behind the sexual abuse stuff but maybe her parents are just worried that it'll happen again.they're just looking out for her.
    if your that desperate to txt her why don't you buy her a top up card and give it to her.her friends will be there but its not as if your talking to her for long,your just giving her something.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The reason why she doesnt want to talk to me with all her friends around is, they dont know what happened to her. Only 2 of her friends know about the sexual abuse and im the only one who knows about the attempted rape.

    I know her parents are only looking out for her but its causing problems. <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Dai
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey everyone, shes finally got credit and we've started talking again (except on the net).

    I dunno why i get so hyper when things like this happens! Im constantly thinking that something has it in for me! expecially where lucy is concerned!

    Thanks for your help,

    dai
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i still don't understand why u can't have a chat in school? its not like you going to bring that stuff up is it.

    glad your talking to her again
    <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im not sure why she wont talk to me in school, but she says she dosent so i respect that. The best i can hope for in school is a smile from the opposite end of the corridor or a quick hi at lunch.

    Thanks so much for your help everyone!!!

    Dai.

    Oh...just remembered, her birthday is coming up soon - think i should get her something? can anyone suggest something for a 14 year old girl????
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