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bring back the love

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Well folks, this is another of those it's-so-sad posts, and it's been here before, so if you don't want to sympathise, stop reading here...

Imagine you've been with the girl you love for almost 4 years now. You've matured together, and you're well past the flash love affairs age. Imagine you've been through really hard times together, supported each other, enjoyed each other, wondered about each other... 'Course, in such a long time, you've noticed the downtimes, but still you feel it's right, no matter what. Just like what all the threads here say: When the initial rush wears off, that's where the really deep feeling starts.

Now imagine that due to circumstances, you haven't seen each other for a couple of months, but you've been on the phone, sent emails, texted... and then she tells you on the phone that, although she's tried very hard, she cannot find love for you in her heart anymore.

What do you do? What do you do with her? What do you do with the pain inside? What do you do with the sorrow about all the time together? How do you subdue the urge to go back to what once was? How do you cope with it when you hear her on the phone, hear that she's desperate and hurting too, hear that she still misses you regardless?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    maybe she loves you right, but because your so far away she thinks it maybe for the best if she ends it now?

    or maybe she need time to her self, maybe she fallen out of love with you and wants you to win her heart back?

    u may have to woo her all over again, all i know is mate you can't seat at home(or where ever you are) and feel sorry for yourself

    if she is the girl for you, get up and go get her...you must not let her slip out of your life

    but what do i know, i'm 18 and never had a real good long term girlfriend, but i hope you get her back mate

    best of luck
    Alex!

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