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I NEED HELP!!! please

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
i am going out with a girl and i think she is absoluetly great i love her and she loves me. The only problem is that my ex is trying to split us up she has already split a previous relationship. has anyone got any idea what i can do. i appreciate any help thankyou <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    tell the girl your with at the moment exactly what your ex is up to so your g/f knows what to expect from her. Then what ever she does your g/f can just laugh at her for.

    **2 grand and i'll shut her up for good capish <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> **
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hahah i've heard it gets done for 5 grand beatnu wink wink <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> , your on the cheap side of things. You need to change your rates

    anyway why not tell you Ex to get a life and find herself a new bf, how old is she?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thats the thing that gets me she's got a new b/f but she still tries to wreck my life. i have told my g/f what to expect she is fine with it but i am not sure it is gonna help in the long run is there anything else i can do to make sure that she doesen't screw my life up again... <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Can you give us any more detail. For eg what does she do to break up your relationships?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    she starts off by trying to get all buddy buddy with my g/f. she tells them that i used to do bad stuff to her but i am not that type of bloke i am very shy and have very low confidence. she tells them that i used to do bad stuff to her and say stuff about her and i am not to be trusted but i have never done stuff like that to her in my life she had me arrested back a few months ago she told them that i was harrasing her but i was with my friends and it is thanks to them that i did'nt get charged for it because i didn't do nothing to her it is her doing it to me i just want her out of my life for good. what i mean when i say that that she is in the same college as me and i cant put up with it please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am starting to think that she wants you back and so she doesn't want to see you with anyone else.

    First thing you do is tell everything to your girl friend and get your mayes to back you up if your g/f is unsure in anyway.

    If i were you i would just get my sis to beat shit outa her but then thats just me. You could also sit down and have a chat with your ex to find out why she is doing it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think you need to get your new girlfriend and your ex girlfriend to have a mud fight, and you by law have to date the winner

    or you could just tell your ex to F*** off. if she messes things up with you and your girlfriend why not mess her life up abit, it maybe the only way she learn

    or you could live in hope and pray she gets board of you and leaves you alone.

    sorry i'm not much help am i...i'm sure someone will come on later and save you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i cant even stay in the same room as her never mind talking to her lol! my girlfriend wants to beat shit out of her as it is but i dont want her to get hurt. plus i havent got a sister <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> i am having bad thoughts coz i know i never ever want her back. how could i get some girl to sort her out for me then <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    one thing i would rig it so my new girlfriend wins coz i will never go out with that backstabbing bitch again. <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> that has made me feel very sick the thought of going with her again yuk! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The best way to get at her is just to completely ignore her this will really get to her but she will only try harder and harder to get to you and soon everyone will see what she is like. If you see her just smile and walk on.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sounds good!! especially the laugh in the face part <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> what can i do about my girlfriend wanting to beat shit out her then (wb ) <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ask her to give you time to deal with it yourself and if your ex is still giving trouble after a couple of months then let your g/f say something to her. My guess is by then your ex will have given up. But your ex obviously aint gonna be fit to get friendly with your g/f as your g/f wants to beat shit out of her.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    True very True i am gonna sit and talk to my other half tonight and ask her her views and i am gonna see what she says i wil ask her if she still loves me and i will ask her what she wants done about her what d o you think wb <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes but its two girls fighting in mud for you man!! can't you see it.... anyway enough of my dreams

    why not have a word with her new bf if you don't want to talk to her, or start saving now and when you get up to 5grand give this Number a call................JUST KIDDING!! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    no my friend the only way to clear this mess is by talking, who knows be nice to this girl and you may even make a friend, try sweet talking this girl.

    why don't you like her by the way?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    True very True i am gonna sit and talk to my other half tonight and ask her her views and i am gonna see what she says i wil ask her if she still loves me and i will ask her what she wants done about her what d o you think wb <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    coz she has made my life a complete hell. she had me arrested for a crime i did'nt commit and what was that number again how much would you do it for. honestly she has made my life a complete hell sorry if i am boring you (wb) <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well as long as you inform your g/f of what is happening then you will be fine. If you ask her what she wants done then you cant be blamed for what happens but i really think you should just ignore her and laugh if she says anything. Then no one gets in trouble for doing anything and she feels stupid
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sorry if i seam ignorent i gotta go my bus is going without me speak to you soon thanks <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No probs chat ya soon
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by shyguy2002:
    <STRONG>i am going out with a girl and i think she is absoluetly great i love her and she loves me. The only problem is that my ex is trying to split us up she has already split a previous relationship. has anyone got any idea what i can do. i appreciate any help thankyou <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>
    TELL HER TO PISS OFF
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      Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
      tell her to piss off
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      Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
      Where do you live, I'll come and sort it for you!! Joking aside - ignore her, she'll soon get fed up. All the time she has a reaction from you. she'll think you're still interested. Believe me.
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      Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
      I still like the mud fight idea <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> , *I will now shut up about the whole mud thing*

      is there no way of not seeing her?, i would do as beatnu said and just laugh at her. it piss her off so much more then anything else you could do

      just laugh and say "you are a silly little girl that don't know shit about shit". and give your new girl a big kiss infront of her

      not sure how that go down with your ex but its worth a try if you done everthing else
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      Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
      i will try what you said you know i will wait till she is coming towards us and give her a nice long kiss and piss me ex right off. hopefully she will get the hint to piss off coz she aint getting no where.... <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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      Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
      yeh, tell ur gf about your ex and explain, that way if she does try anything she'l know not 2 believe her
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      Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
      i am very thankful for the info if any one has any more advice i would love to hear it thanks and keep it coming <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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