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Will it last?
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Ive been with my boyf for 8 months and i love him to bits and he feels the same about me! But he's just moved from Fife(scotland) to London to join the army! We both want to make it work, but i need advice about long distance relationships!DO they work or Do they not???
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the summer i moved down south i met the love of my life, we met through a mate of mine, he was gorgeous and everythin i wanted in a boyf, and he felt the same, movin away was terrible, i was more devestated about leavin him than leavin my dad and his family. a few weeks after movin i went up to stay with him 4 the weekend, it was gr8 and we were inseprable the whole time. but, once i returned home the reality set in 4 both of us, due to distance, 200 miles, and neither of us at that time being able to drive we decided that we'd cause more heartache in the long run if we were to stay 2gether and not b able to c eachother. if i still lived up north i hope to think that we'd still b together, but that wouldnt b the reality, and i know it. we were only 16, and thought we were 'in love', but if we were i think that nothin would have come between us.
long distance relationships need to b extra strong, with more trust than eva, if ur ment to b together then of course it will last.
all i can say is down feel dishartened by my heartache! i've never had a relationship 4 longer than 9 wks anyway!
good luck, if its true love it'll work out.
if not theres plenty more fish in the sea, not that that seems like any conselation at the time.
im sure u'll b fine
c ya love helly
To make it work you need to support your guy as much as you can and remind him of your feelings as often as you can. Send him letters, call him, maybe visit him if you get an opportunity. The good thing is if you decide to be faithful and wait for your man, it will be only up to him, because, as we said, there are no girls in the army :-)
Good luck!
Love GwaiMui.
thats all i can say...
if he's good enough to defend our country then he must be for you...
(i think thats the most cheesey thing i've ever said!!) hahahah...
hope u have a wicked wedding,
c ya love helly
3 days ago you told us your bf was leaving town to join the army. Now you're agreeing to get married. It all seems a bit quick fix and hasty.
May I suggest you look at this in a pretty cool and dispassionate way and satisfy yourself that your doing the right thing.
Having said all that, may I offer my congratulations and best wishes as well.
Blade