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I want to get with this guy, but I have no idea how! :(

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey everyone, I'm new to this site so I really don't have a clue what I'm ranting about-but hopefully someone out there will help me out..fingers crossed! Ok so I really like this guy in my class at college & I've been told he likes me, but we're polar opposites & for me to make a move would be considered so weird by everyone, yet i dont think he'll ever get round to it, and I'm not sure whether I should go for it & risk it being short lived (our personalities are v different) or just play it safe? I've another year left on my course,so if we broke up it would be annoying having to face him every day (there's only 16 in my class so no hiding!) Am I analysing too much? I know I'm certainly ranting too much! So I'll shut up now-I'm not normally this neurotic but I'm pretty tired! Any advice more than welcome-cheers! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey ruthie welcome! i say just go for it!!! life is too short to worry about things like this, you'll only regret it if you dont <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    [ 16-04-2002: Message edited by: *SARAH* ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi welcome to the site, but this should really be posted in relationships.

    [ 16-04-2002: Message edited by: Miss Quoted ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok cool, we are all heading out on the town on thursday so I will get him wickedly drunk and see what happens..all it should take is about 4 jack daniels hehe! Hope I don't bottle it though..
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, you go for it! You have nothing to lose.

    Let us know how you get on! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Ruthie19:
    <STRONG>Ok cool, we are all heading out on the town on thursday so I will get him wickedly drunk and see what happens..all it should take is about 4 jack daniels hehe! Hope I don't bottle it though..</STRONG>

    im liking you already <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    GO FOR IT!

    Never made a move on the guys I've been with myself, but it would be a great motivation if you showed that girl like us can get it done!!!

    Good luck!

    Edited, cause I made a teeny tiny mistake which looked rather dumb <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    [ 16-04-2002: Message edited by: Jacqueline the Ripper ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We'll see how it goes, he's a teensy bit smaller than me though, which is a bit annoying, but if he wears his hiking boots he should be alright, although that could look a bit mad in a club! Ah who cares! God, I'm supposed to be revising for a big exam tomorrow, show's how diligent I am!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree go for it...im sure hell love you for making the first move. and welcome to the site...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go for it maybe he is a little shy! if u make the move you never know what could happen
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    moving to relationships
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    do go for it
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know EXACTLY where ur coming from, Im goin through a similar thing at the mo except, I dont know if he likes me. We've just got to know each other and kinda flirt <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> , but its in a jokey way, and hes attractive bound to have g/f (or several! lol) I just dont know if I should make a move and give him my number? I wouldnt mind if we were just friends, but I dont want to make a fool out of myself and go through the rejection <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> *Gees Ive got it bad! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> * can any1 help me too? <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    **Sorry how rude of me Welcome to this site, and Good Luck in what u do and the outcome
    <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> **

    [ 18-04-2002: Message edited by: Imagine ]
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