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In the genes?
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London brunette posted a situation that poses an interesting point.
I believe that generally, a guy's behaviour is geared to getting their leg over. Whatever the situation, there is invariable a well (or not so well) hidden direct or indirect shag angle to it.
Two questions:
Men: Anyone agree or disagree
Women: Had any experiences where the true motive emerges, and is this the norm?
[This message has been edited by Cleanblade (edited 06-09-2000).]
I believe that generally, a guy's behaviour is geared to getting their leg over. Whatever the situation, there is invariable a well (or not so well) hidden direct or indirect shag angle to it.
Two questions:
Men: Anyone agree or disagree
Women: Had any experiences where the true motive emerges, and is this the norm?
[This message has been edited by Cleanblade (edited 06-09-2000).]
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If a guy is a bit more timid, it may take him a while, he may want to get to know the girl really well first. But the underlying thing is still there.
If guy is getting too close, and a girl doesn't have any feelings other than as friends, then girls, can you please tell him. It is really annoying to ruin a friendship when all it would have taken is a case of jokingly saying that the guy hasn't a hope in hell.
BUT, we're not exclusively the products of our genes. If we were, we'd still be in the jungles. It's perfectly possible for a guy to become friends with a gal, and the sexual component to only light up later.
WHY oh why do guys use neanderthal excuses when they find it impossible to be in a monogomous relationship?
We may have animal instincts but don't underestimate humans, we have evolved so much.
I know loads of guys who are not controlled by an 'indirect shag angle' and I know loads of guys that are. And the same goes for females. The reason why some females have become more like this in recent years is because before men always repressed women, using their physical strength as an advantage.
So if you are really horny you are really horny. Stop trying to find reasons and excuses for it. Some have higher testosterone levels than others and the average man has way more testosterone than the average woman.
You are not cavemen so stop being so macho.
No offence, guys. Love u all, just wish more guys would find their feminin side and the world would probably be a much better place! Hehehe!
What do you reckon?
i thought all lads were the same, and as evey1 who knows me knows i tend to refer to em all as bastards due to my own and other peoples experiences with em. although ive found 1 exception, and he aint after just a shag, unfortunately hes perfect but i just dont seem to like him in a wanting a relationship way, i can honestly say that hes the only 1 ive meet whos not dick strong.
i thought my ex was the same, when we were discussing sex, and he was sayin how he'd wait till i was ready,and wanted 2 shag him and the next minute we were shaggin, so he was obviously goin about askin 4 a shag, although it take 2 2 tango.
Emotional intmacy and sexuality are (or can be) totally separate things. On the other hand, one can grow from the other, as happened with me.