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girl likes boy, what should i do/?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
OK well im in college and i like this guy. We've done group projects and we have talked about other things than school work. Anyway ive realized that we both like alot of the same things and i think we're both attracted to each other. One time he asked me to come to this party at his place. I had my little sister here so i really couldnt come. He suggested bringing her and said to me that he hopes he sees me later that night. Not sure what that meant!! I also invited him to my beach house this summer to hangout. Just so happens he lifeguards in the town above where im going to live. Im not the "make the move" type to actually ask him out. Im obviously more of the type to inivte him into a social setting. I want to find out if he likes me or just wants piece of ass before this summer!! Any suggestions would be appreciated!!! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, if u like him u realy shld jst tel him! u dnt av 2 ask him out as such bt u cld say "look i do actualy realy like u" OR do wot ur doin now & play it cool & b realy subtle, dont make urself 2 available or he'l think he can av u any day ov the week....and if it turns out tht all he wants is "a piece ov ass" u can tel him where 2 go!! let me know how it goes! xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey!! u no, i agree- i no its hard sumtimes but if u really like im that much y not buck up the courage n tell him! it wuld be much easier or u culd go the lng way round n drop suttle hints, im shure he;d get the pic in the end!
    This is the 20th centry, its not a crime 4 us girls to do the talkin 4 onces, be cool- play cool n ull get there!

    good luck! xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol i think im guna have to start my own dictionary english-text / text-english
    It so hard to read when ppl write in tx writing!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, down with text language, it sucks. As far as your situation goes, I say make the move. Speaking as a notoriously reticent bloke, lots would love a girl to make the first move since we're so shit at it. Even if he turns you down, he'll be flattered. Do it girl!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    geez, i have the same problem!!! i hanged out a lot with this guy, i thought it was going somewhere, he never really said anything about us. but i guess in my mind, i was hoping that there will be something there...i do like him a lot, but it seems that lately he hasn't been keeping in touch as much. i don't know if its just me or that he's really busy. i used to text him a lot, i thought i might have scared him off, but anyways, now i just try not to, hoping that he'll get the hints i've been giving for the past weeks and finally ask me out...i don't know...
    also in the same position of whether to tell him i like him or not...
    my advice to you, do it! i just hope i can take my own advice...

    wishing and hoping....sigh....
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