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Whoooooops. I've been had! Why am I so idiotic?
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OK this is following on from this thread: http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60668
Sooooooo
This afternoon I come back and her mate, Roz, is on MSN. We start chatting and she adds another one of our mates, Rob, to the convo. We're getting on merrily, then they started having an argument. They were going on about telling me secrets or something, and then in a fit of swear words, Rob blurted out "OK Kristian, I'll tell you - Roz asked me out, I rejected her and then she got all uppity and saying she was too good for me anyway, etc." So I'm not too thrilled at seeing my best mates having it out with each other, so I privately MSN Roz and ask what's going on. She said that Rob wanted to go out with our other friend, Bonnie. I said no chance cos she's obsessed with her b/f. Then Roz admits it wasn't bonnie, but someone else but wouldn't tell me. I guessed Angela but kept it to myself (I told Roz weeks ago I fancied Angela).
Then after they had a bit more flaming, Angela herself joined the conversation. She wondered what the hell was going on, so I told her I had no idea. Then Roz said something about Rob being useless in bed, and Angela exploded - that conifmred to me that they did fancy each other, but somehow Rob and Roz had had a one-nighter behind Ange's back after she thought she had something going with him. The shit was truly hitting the fan, with Angela upset with both of them and Roz and Rob still falling out, and them intemittently bringing me into it. So I said "Guys, there's a lot of shit flying about here so now i'm invovled and i'm a neutral lets all be totally honest with each other. I'll start." And with that, I told Angela EVERYTHING about the period i fancided her, still going on now. The whole truth. After I posted that, nobody said anything to me but were still at each other's throats.
I was by now downing a random bottle of wine i'd found in the kitchen, shaking like hell wondering how i'd got myself into this, and then Rob said he was off leaving only Ange and Roz there. So I said "Guys, what the HELL has been going on? Tell me everything, i don't care." So Roz said "Pick up your internal phone"
Expecting to hear one of them in tears at the other end, I had Angela laughing her head off saying "Kristian... we were joking!"
Oh FUCK!!!
Now how am I gonna get out of this one?
Sooooooo
This afternoon I come back and her mate, Roz, is on MSN. We start chatting and she adds another one of our mates, Rob, to the convo. We're getting on merrily, then they started having an argument. They were going on about telling me secrets or something, and then in a fit of swear words, Rob blurted out "OK Kristian, I'll tell you - Roz asked me out, I rejected her and then she got all uppity and saying she was too good for me anyway, etc." So I'm not too thrilled at seeing my best mates having it out with each other, so I privately MSN Roz and ask what's going on. She said that Rob wanted to go out with our other friend, Bonnie. I said no chance cos she's obsessed with her b/f. Then Roz admits it wasn't bonnie, but someone else but wouldn't tell me. I guessed Angela but kept it to myself (I told Roz weeks ago I fancied Angela).
Then after they had a bit more flaming, Angela herself joined the conversation. She wondered what the hell was going on, so I told her I had no idea. Then Roz said something about Rob being useless in bed, and Angela exploded - that conifmred to me that they did fancy each other, but somehow Rob and Roz had had a one-nighter behind Ange's back after she thought she had something going with him. The shit was truly hitting the fan, with Angela upset with both of them and Roz and Rob still falling out, and them intemittently bringing me into it. So I said "Guys, there's a lot of shit flying about here so now i'm invovled and i'm a neutral lets all be totally honest with each other. I'll start." And with that, I told Angela EVERYTHING about the period i fancided her, still going on now. The whole truth. After I posted that, nobody said anything to me but were still at each other's throats.
I was by now downing a random bottle of wine i'd found in the kitchen, shaking like hell wondering how i'd got myself into this, and then Rob said he was off leaving only Ange and Roz there. So I said "Guys, what the HELL has been going on? Tell me everything, i don't care." So Roz said "Pick up your internal phone"
Expecting to hear one of them in tears at the other end, I had Angela laughing her head off saying "Kristian... we were joking!"
Oh FUCK!!!
Now how am I gonna get out of this one?
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On the other hand, it might not all be bad - if she resented me for it she wouldn't have twice started an MSN convo with me this evening would she, with all the usual banter?
Remind me why you fancy her again?
Erm her wacky personality i think... maybe i've just fallen foul of that!
Its all a joke that went slightly wrong - they're forgiven (God i'm a soft touch). I'm chatting to her now actually so nothing seems too wrong.
I've put the elaborated version of it all on my LJ, though I forgot to save the convo which is a bit of a bummer
Yeah no there's no way i'm going to try to deny anything - i need to salvage the tiny bit of dignity i have left!
*gulp* one hour 'til I see them...
I agree. Don't mention it, it'll blow over if they're good friends. They'll probably feel pretty bad about it anyway - doesn't sound like a particularly good joke to me. But if they do mention it (which would make them pretty crappy friends) then just do what Mist said and play along. You never know, it could be a blessing in disguise that Angela now knows you like her. But just let it be for now, and try not to go *too* bright red when you next see her!
Ooooh man i'm more sensitive than she thinks!
(BTW I didn't mention it until they did... and their whole bloody block knows about i think judging from what a couple of people I bumped into said! At least it all seems good-humoured though.)
i'm confused.
call them all twats.
Nah, I'm in one. The girls are in another and the bloke is in the other one.
Though I have been known to have four-way convos with people on my corridor and the one below!