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What should I do?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have been liking this boy since last year, and i see him everyday apart from saturdays and sundays, unless we meet up. He is my friend and he and I are very close, that even some people think were going out. People pass comments saying 'you two like each other'. But we just both deny it. I have a feeling he likes me, but i am not too sure. This is killing me, i sometimes want to throw away my feelings for him, but when i see him they come flooding back. Sorry if this is long, but if you don't know the situation, how can i expect you to understand and help me. <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Does this boy have any idea how you feel?

    Maybe it's just worth biting the bullet and telling him how much you like him. It's preferable to all this emotional turmoil <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> You won't know until you've tried!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No he doesn't know, but my friend teased me in front of him and he just smiled. I reall need help. I could tell him but considering i see him all the time, imagine he turns me down, i will never live it down. <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know it might be hard but you need to tell each him how you feel its the only way you will find out for certin. Trust me I know I've been there, like the guy I'm kinda seeing right now was one of my best friends for two years and one night he told me how hes always liked me and I was like god I totally feel the same. So it worked out good for me and him...... there is no reason why it wont work for you two but you really do need to talk about it cause at least that way - good or bad, you'll know where you stand with him!!! Trust me it will save you a lot of tears in the long run!!!

    Good Luck!!! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I was in the same situation as you. People started thinking we were going out but in the end I just told him how I felt and he was totally fine with it and it turned out he felt the same. The best relationships start with friendship and you've got nothing to loose by telling him that you care for him, my guess is he'll be really flattered
    good luck <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just go for it, it will be better than beating yourself up about it like this
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for the reply's. The thing is he went out with one of my friends and to go out with him, is like taking her left overs. My friends told me, it would not look good to go out with him now that he's done that. So should i take friends advice, cause i'm the kind of person that feels shy to approach someone to tell them i like them. So how would you's lot approach that situation. <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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