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Just a Friend

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Ok so I've been seeing my friend off and on over the past few months and then on Saturday he we were out for a drive and he started talking about how he was finding it hard to pull other girls <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> . I though he cared about me so why would he say something like that when he must know it would have hurt me... <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why have you been off an on, i take it you may wish thing to be more formal but he wants things to be open?

    sorry if i'm reading to much into it, if i was you i think about what i really want and then find an easy way of telling him, i dare say he didn't mean what he said to come out quite so cold, us blokes have a way with our words.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah your proberly right I dont think he would have said it if he know it would upset me!!

    And your right I would like things to get a bit more serious between us but I dont know how to bring up the subject without scaring him!!! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well a bloke running away when things get serious, no never <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    i'm sorry i can't help with that, maybe if you leave little hints now and then

    and make him think its his idea, (if you can)us blokes like 2 think we are in control

    i think i should shut up now, this is a very hard subject for some guys, maybe talk to his friends and get them to plant the idea into his head or something

    sorry i couldn't help, i hope you get what you want

    <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aww thanks I hope I get him too!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sure you will get him, just play it cool and maybe show him wont he be missing with out you

    all the best...now if only i could start to sort out my own love life.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol if your as good at sorting out your own love life as you are with other peoples then you should be fine!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Thanks for your help!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nope i'm not, i think i'll end up walking this earth old and cold...and alone

    i'm doomed in love, but it don't stop me trying..now if i could just get this girl out of my head then i'll be fine

    at least i help you out(kind of) thats my good deed for the day done <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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