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OMG what have I done ?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey peeps, some of you will remember when i posted about going on a date with a guy, and nothing happened.....well.....its got a whole lot....worse.....
ok, it was Jay's party, and everyone was pissed, and everyone was kissing each other. I stayed out of the way, coz i wasnt ready to kiss my mates, so i went upstairs....my date was downstairs gettin off with all the girls, and i was a bit miffed, so i stayed up there.
i went down a lot later, and he came and sat by me, we got comfy and i ended up sitting/lying on his lap. he was holding me and he started to kiss me, and i got off with him, 2wice, (in front of all my mates!) It was my first kiss and now i'm starting to kind of "regret" it (i'll use the word loosely!)
he whispered to me " i really really like you", and i told him i liked him too.
someone asked us are we are going out, and neither of us, made any attempt to answer it, so i dont know what to do.
another "problem" - 2 of my mates fancy him, and both got off with him at the party.
If i dont go out with him, i'm worried that one of them will, and i know i will get really jealous.....
HELP !!!!!!
thanx Beth xXx <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Right i dontnow this guy understandbly but to me he sounds like hes not worth it. If hes gone round and gettin holda a lot of girls who were mates then he hasnt got ur feelings in interest. And i know it sounds harsh but how do u know he didnt say this to any of the other girls he got off wiv.

    This guys a loser your better off findin some1 whos worth it
    Love
    Lil Devil
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not being harsh but it just seems that this guys out to get off with as many people as possible and to be honest doenst sound like he is worth wasting your time over.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seems silly 2 want 2 be with this boy, i mean he knew u were at this party and he still went round getting of with other girls. is he a player??

    guess if he with he's mate he got 2 "big him self up" and i guess being seen with a lot of girls is his way of doing it.....maybe i'm wrong but if he say he likes u he shouldn't be kissing other girls

    and maybe have word with ur mates, tell them u like him and 2 stay away from him

    hope all works out 4 U!! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This guys about 10, come on, you're all just alcoholic cider drinkers. Sounds like he'll grow up to become WhoWhere, got forbid.

    Just go out with him, have a bit of a laugh and then keep him as a friend when you get bored of him. It's all so easy at your age.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Either you have a weird definition of 'getting off' or that guy has truly amazing stamina and recuperative powers!

    Getting off means attaining orgasm.

    Orgasm through oral sex = sucking off.
    Orgasm through masterbation = jerking off.
    Orgasm through unspecified means = getting off.

    Now, about you 'getting off' with him twice on the sofa in front of all your mates...

    Didn't they notice you shouting "Oh god! Yes! Yes! Yessss! I'm cuming! Ohhhhh!" etc? <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ummm the words getting off are used to describe kissing with your <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> amongst popel that age.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's people.
    And whats wrong with growing up to be like WhoWhere?? He's lovely...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 'SeaShihtzu':
    <STRONG>It's people.
    And whats wrong with growing up to be like WhoWhere?? He's lovely...</STRONG>

    Aww, thanx.
    And what's wrong with cider>!?!?!?!

    I drink proper stuff, none of this diamond white/white lightning nonsense.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's ok <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">*hug*
    But.... cider is minging. I have a friend called Jonty who loves it(only person I know - except WW that does), I can't stand it but each to their own i suppose <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You have to make sure that he is not going to still go around getting off with your mates, you have to be 100%positive that if you do go out he si going to be faithful because if you aren't you'll go insane constantly thinking he's gonna do the dirt. I know what it's like and trust me you'll get grey hairs and drive him away for being so jealous.Go with your gut instinct on this one might work out but be sure you're gonna be able to keep a leash on the green eyed monster
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