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after the break-up........

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hey,
me and my b/f broke up last week, we only went out for a month, but it took ages for us to get together, so it feels like i've been attached to this guy for a while. I know that i don't wana go around making a fool of myself trying to get him back, coz there's no point and i don't think i want him anyway, but i feel really empty now. <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> The rest of my life is fine but i feel like i really need a b/f again. I'm not usually like this, i go for months without a bloke, but now i feel really lonely, and i don't know wot to do about it. Any suggestions will be appreciated, thanx
xxx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bring out the comfort food, and the old vids. Apart from that, time is the best healer <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    hope you feel better soon,
    xxxxhugsxxxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanx, but i've tried the chocolate (jus made me feel fatter and uglier, and got me in to that , "no1 will ever want to go out wid me" sort of thing)
    Do you think i should go out and try and find sum1 else, or be single for a bit?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you still miss him, then being with someone else isn't fair on either of you. Have a bit of 'me' time.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't miss him, i just miss having some1, sorry am i being a total pain?
    (i should learn to control my emotions and jus get over myself)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You're not being a pain, but you are missing him. You may like to think you're not, but 'missing having someone' is really missing him. Wait a couple of weeks, if you still feel the same, im obviously wrong -it's happens <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> then find another guy <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanku, will keep smiling, and go shove my nose in an english book if i feel sad, hmmmmmmm, maybe not, that might really make me wana cry, hehe
    thankx again
    xxx <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    NP <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aww *feels all warm and fuzzy*

    You can send your unwanted chocolate to me, if you like.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If she does...can i have some? Pleeeeease? <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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