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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok this is doin my head in... <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

i fancy my 30-something teacher. every time i see him i just want to hug him and talk to him about stuff. he is a really nice person and has helped me through a lot of bad times by talking to me.

i respect him and want to be like him when im older.

sometimes he is nice to me and sometimes he brushes me off.

this is really stupid i don't know why i am writing it. i don't really know what to do *sigh*

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This was discussed very recently in http://www.thesite.org/cgi-noperl/ubb/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=4&t=001767

    Take a look there and you'll already see some very relevant advice/opinions.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    guess some girls like their teachers, i mean what else u got on offer, the boys ur age R mostly little shits rite, and girl grow up faster then boys

    u will find some 1 new 2 like soon, i wouldn't make a move or anything, just carry on as u R, take pleasure in knowing ur find some 1 ur own age soon, or maybe u be like most girl and go 4 an order bloke, but that a whole another subject!!

    okay hope i help in some small way?? <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks for the replies. the link was helpful <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    i know its useless. he doens't know i like him. im very shy and he's married and i have a really nice boyfriend anyway.

    i just feel like i want more. he is a really cool person, the sort of person that i would want to be my friend. maybe thats what it is. maybe i dont fancy him at all . i don't know i am confused! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    well i am 18 so technically its not illegal, i'll be leaving soon anyway. he would lose his job tho. i can't believe im even thinking about this it is never going to happen in a million yrs. *sigh*

    its true that all the guys my age are stupid immature pricks. i dont understand the world sometimes.

    i just feel like i should do something. i dont know how much more i can take of him not knowing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Shit, it was me that started the link you got referred to!! And to be fair, some people do get together, but the likelyhood is you will find someone your own age... but I totally understand the whole trusting them and respecting them as there's this guy (who was the subject of my link, not because I fancy him but because the rumours about me and him got me wondering what if...) well anyway, my mates either take the piss or get stressy, but I find it much easier to talk to him than anyone about some of the things in my head. He knows exactly what to say to make me feel better too- I knowit's his job, but it isn't to stay back after school with me and discuss my life, while I moan about having to go to court over my mate's attempted rape and my Mum and Dad on the verge of a divorce. He's 33. And married with two kids. And the way he loves them kids more than anything makes me wanna be like him, and have a husband like him- it is so sweet. But me and him- no!!!
    Stick with the boyfriend- for now anyhows!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    God, I have never heard truer words, especially aimed at someone else but meaning so much to me! So thanks!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks guys.

    yeh i think it would definitely worry him if i told him. it was stupid to even think about it.

    i think i just got mixed up between respect and thanks for helpin me out and actually wanting to be with him.

    thank you for your thoughts <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> i think the best thing you can do is forget about him because he is probably married or in a relationship and it is probably only a crush.... you will probably find someone who is really good for you and you are wasting your time on chasing your teacher coz you are not gonna get anywhere with him coz (1) he will probably lose his job in teaching and he wont be able to get another job at all and (2) you will most probably regret it anyway. take it from me look around find someone who likes you you can probably learn to like them and you will have a whole new life and it will probably go far!!! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> sorry if i was no help!!
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