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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Id like all of your advice. There's this girl i know, and i really really like her. More than anyone else in the world. But i dont know what to do, i think she knows how i feel, and she kinda says she likes me back, but whenever we go out it nothing ends up happening and i end up hurt. She says i should just try it on with her but everytime it seems as if shes not interested. Shes not the sort of person who would lead me on tho. So any advice.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Talk to her about it. Words speak louder than hints, they cant be misunderstood.

    good luck <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You got two choices!

    Either does as she says and try it on with her, just lean forward to give her a kiss or something and she if she returns it.

    Or, if you are that unsure of whether she likes you back then speak to her, don't get too full on, just say you find her fun, attractive blah blah and ask her if she's interested in anything happenin.

    Hope this helps,

    Phil <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it seem she does want u 2 make a move, she may be thinking why the hell ani't ya! but its far better 2 take ur time and feel good, then try rush something

    i guess its ur call. u could just think.."what the hell have i got 2 lose" and make the 1st move, but i know its easy 2 say but can't be worrying when ur there.

    i hope it all works out 4 U, u got nothing 2 lose have u
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Take her out. Have a few drinks, but not too many. Tell her your really glad to have her as a friend, hold her hand, look her in the eyes and kiss her.
    Even if she is'nt up for it, at least she will respect you for being a man. If she doesn't return the kiss smile and say " Well i'd never forgive myself if i didn't try! Would you like another drink? I do!" Then run to the bar.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You should talk to her about it tell her how you feel.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you'll never know until u ask her...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    !!!!!!!!!!GET STUCK IN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    wats da worst dat can happen she says no thanks???stay friends and wait 4 da right 1 2 cum along!!1 :*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    awwwwwwwwwwww well just talk to her and talk openly and you can see how she feels and how you feel and just go out on a date and give her a kiss on the cheek bye if you can't get the guts to kiss on the lips but be yourself and talk to her instead of relyin on body language good luck sure it will be al fine in the end <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    RIGHT - she probably just feels awrkward and shy infront of you because she likes you so you are getting the impression she isnt interested -GIRLS LIKE THE GUY TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE! go for it... i guarantee you won't be dissapointed!

    keep us informed xxx
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