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the great escape
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IVE BEEN MARRIED FOR THREE YEARS AND I STILL LOVE MY WIFE VERY MUCH BUT I STILL LIKE LOOKING AT PORNO VIDEOS AND MAGS BUT MY WIFE SAYS ITS LIKE CHEATING ON HER BUT I DONT AGREE......ITS CAUSING ARGUEMENTS AND IM NOT HAPPY ABOUT THIS,,,,,I LOVE HER VERY MUCH BUT WHATS WRONG IN WHAT IM DOING?
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On the cheating side of it, I wouldn't say you where cheating, ok so your watching people go at it but its not like your joining in or going behind her back...
I can understand where shes coming from tho, I guess you just need to talk to her about it, maybe only watch stuff when she isn't there...
Perhaps shes concerned that she can perform well enough for you and you need to mags/videos to pleasure yourself.
Just talk to her about it, I hope thats helped in some way. Good luck! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
easy on the caps lock mate......
I can see both points of view, maybe your wife has an issue about the way she looks or feels about herself. Maybe she feels threatened by your mags and to an extent I can see where she is coming from.
Maybe she needs to feel wanted by you, and by "reading" your mags, then she might feel inadequate to you in some way. Its a bit of a toughie, but marriage is all about compromise I guess.
Let us know how it goes
Brian
Mama I love you, Mama I care.
Probably best to find out from her what she finds so objectionable about the pornos...
I don't think this is an uncommon situation, and as Dagwood says I think it may have something to do with you fantasising about other women that is the root of the problem.
Only users lose drugs
Maybe you could both use the porno vids in a more constructive way.............???