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HATE FOR NO REASON.

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I've known this guy for a while. I like him a lot. He now knows... in fact EVERYONE knows. He teases me ALL THE TIME. Sometimes cheeky; sometimes nasty. Most of the time it's about age. He'll say nearly every day how young I am. He's 4 years older than me. I'm going insane. I hate him for it but I like him too and the type of person he is if he hated me he would just ignore me but he doesn't....

Hope that makes sence.
HELP!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have you tried teasing him back? do it in a friendly way, sort of jokey teasy! he might respect you for it!

    by the way i believe you have an e-mail from me sweetness! you not reply to them?

    Cae9
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would tease him back, if I could think of something clever to say! I'd probably be nasty but not mean it, kinda like him!
    BUT, I'll try out smart him and see what happens anyway. <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> Could be fun...
    Anyone have any lines I could throw at him?? <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

    Cae9, I've just replied to your e-mail now. Thanx. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd probably try teasin' him back in a slightly different way. use corny chat up lines? 'you must be tired'...etc or did it hurt when u feel from heaven! It might embarress him, but @ least he'd know u can give as good as you get!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Personally i would stick with light hearted teasing, or try out smarting him! that might work!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I reckon melissa is totally right.
    There's a good chance this guy fancies you in my opinion. I knew a bloke once who was always really nasty to me more than anyone else; we argued constantly and almost got into a few physical fights. It turned out he really fancied me and we ended up gettin' it on.
    Some men are a bit insecure or something I guess, and are scared that their mates will find out how they really feel, so by having a go at you they're trying to create exactly the opposite picture so as no one will suspect. I think it's a bit immature and wouldn't want to go out with a guy like that, but if you like him play it cool. As soon as he knows you fancy him it's all over: the ball will be totally in his court.
    Bide your time and flirt/ tease him too. If it's meant to work out believe me, it will
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx for the replies. It's really interesting to see different peoples views on it.

    Just a bit more information:

    I think maybe he does like me but I need to be about two years older for him to like me like "that".

    We've had many conversations / arguments / jokes about the age gap... and I remember one time he seemed quite angry about the whole thing; it quite pissed me off too. Sometimes he upsets me but I don't know whether he means it cos he does this cheeky smile. lol.

    His mate says it's cos I'm not old enough to do "stuff" and another mate says he keeps hinting stuff about my age all the time cos he has a problem with it...

    It's really annoying; I hope one day he can see past it. Right now I guess it's back to the teasing carry on.

    I'll let you know what happens when I introduce him to my new attitude <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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