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Rejection
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I'm not meaning this to sound up myself in ANY way, but I've just realised that I've never really been rejected by a guy before. (until last night, that is) I mean, I have, but that was a guy who had a girlfriend. It's not that I think I'm wonderful and that no guy could resist me, it's just that I don't have much experience and the experience I do have is where I fancy a guy and he fancies me back at least a little, so something happens.
But last night I was rejected (not in so many words but I had it made very obvious that he wasn't interested) by a guy who is single and available and who I fancied the pants off. Absolutely nothing is going to happen with him. And that's not because he has a girlfriend or any other excuse but just simply because he's not interested in me. And I can't help but take that personally and think 'what's wrong with me'?
I guess I just wanted to ask what do you do to get over it? And yes I know it sounds stupid and it happens to everyone all the time but there we go, I've only been single for a month and before that I was in a year and a half relationship with a guy who'd fancied me for ages. At the moment I'm thinking get drunk and start thinking about all the things about this guy which were actually really annoying. And I've found a few already, so yay me.
I'm aware of how stupid this sounds, by the way.
But last night I was rejected (not in so many words but I had it made very obvious that he wasn't interested) by a guy who is single and available and who I fancied the pants off. Absolutely nothing is going to happen with him. And that's not because he has a girlfriend or any other excuse but just simply because he's not interested in me. And I can't help but take that personally and think 'what's wrong with me'?
I guess I just wanted to ask what do you do to get over it? And yes I know it sounds stupid and it happens to everyone all the time but there we go, I've only been single for a month and before that I was in a year and a half relationship with a guy who'd fancied me for ages. At the moment I'm thinking get drunk and start thinking about all the things about this guy which were actually really annoying. And I've found a few already, so yay me.
I'm aware of how stupid this sounds, by the way.
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Hmmm :chin: a new strategy perhaps?
Just Come Out Of Long Term Bad Relationship?
Monk In Disguise?
Mr_Wobble
I'm just thinking of the postivies, like being able to go on the pull again with my mates without anybody in the bakc of my mind. But after a few years of doing that anyway i'm getting a bit bored
And geez why does this always have to happen in the run-up to Valentine's Day???
Anyway...
I feel better about it now. I've enjoyed being single a little more now and I don't care so much about this guy. Still care about him a bit but... no so much.
I'm feeling better about it now. He was younger than me, anyway... can't have that, can we?